I like the comment that everywhere in Taiwan is like mini city, that is very much true. Even little villages out in the moutnains are the same as in the city, not as tall mind you. it just doesnt spread far.
With my post i find that all the cities mentioned above are more or less the same, at least to me. With exception of Taipei which actually has some organization (despite what some people that live there might think). K-town, which i dont live near but visit often, is like someone above described. polluted, congested, no level roads, not many sidewalks. but over the last few years i have seen it “cleaned up” a LOT. its still a city, and the quality of roads and pollution level is not so much what i was meaning as its more or less similar island wide.
I am MOSTLY meaning peoples attitudes and how life is run. When i say countryside i am not talking about places like pingtung city (that is a city by my standards anyway), i mean the out of city (and out of outer city lol) mostly farmland/mountain areas.
In the city you see less (i say less, not none) sexism, racism, child beating, physical school punishment, criminal protection, things swept under the rug kind of shit. Men need to pay the wifes parents to get married ( i blew a gasket at my wifes side when that came up and refused!), there is a very real negative attitude towards aboriginals, despite them being neighbours, the age factor IS the rule!
I have never lived in a city, i live through friends/family/visits to think how they run, but they seem, through my eyes/ears, far more civil (for lack of a better word). We live at the bottom of the mountains about 1 hour south of Cishan, close to Sandimen. But for 4 years prior to that we lived in another village about 30 mins from Pingtung city, which is VERY bad for these types of things. Here is bad as well, but we have not been here long enough to really get the dirt lol.
Here our only fancy restaurant is a $125 hot pot restaurant connected to the only 7-11 lol. We go to K-town or Pingtung to eat something western/fancy. I always thought they had a lot of choices, sure not close to Taipei, but still a lot I find.
It is funny Taidong was mentioned as more laid back. Everytime i am there i get the same feeling. There are also more things to do there than here. There are funky little bars with live bands all the time, beaches, dancing, artists etc…As far as country side, Taidong is probabyl my favourite area (up the coast from the city)
EDIT: also find outside of Taipei/Taijong/Kaohsiung it is very hard to find hobby things. Almost all my hobbies i just dont do here because they are so hard to find things. Another hard thing for a foreigner in the country is that very few speak English, or any other language. And a lot of people dont even know chinese, just Taiwanese/Hakka/aboriginal languages. Me and my wifes parents rarely understand each otehr as they speak classic “old person Taiwandirin” lol.