Holy fuck. Fuck Ermitrude’s temp thread. This is my thread, no doubts.
First of all, yes, your wife’s not being fair at all. In my case we write down prety much every single bill we have to pay, so we know how much is paying each one. Yeah, supposedly we try to pay the same. Tell your wife you are not a cow so stop milking you (or your wallet).
As for her joking about leaving you alone with your illness if that ever happens… who knows. So far, how supportive do you find her?
Now, You are making a lot of money for Taiwanese standards, so your wife is. The problem is that most likely you can not do that forever, as you pointed out. I make not even half what you make (and before taxes), and my gf is making 45k, although the company does not declare everything, which means an even crappier retirement fund.
Every day, almost every night, I think about this. I’m about 35 yo, and I haven’t made any decision regarding my future and my retirement. Before I used to hope to die not very old, but who knows what will happen…
Honestly, I’m scared to dead about a future as a homeless. I won’t need to support my parents, but my inheritance will be lame (we are 5 sibilins). At least you are making MONEY (dude, no offense but reduce those bills already!!!) AND investing. I only talk about investing, business ideas, buying and selling currencies… but I have done nothing since I’m here (already 4,5 years!!!). I have saved a bit over 1M TWD and I own a 250k TWD bike. And I have another account in my country with about 21K EUR.
I’m going to renew the ARC this month and I plan to ask boss for a salary raise. But i need a plan. Either that or accept a very humble existance in some OTHER tropical island, fishing and eating coconuts… and hopefully banging some exotic girls (well, that was the joke I had back in the day… “if I ever fuck up, I´ll end up in a tropical island fishing, eating coconuts, and banging local girls”… close enough… well, not really).
The only solution I see for myself is to:
- save money, stop wasting it into aquariums shit
- look for some investments (but I’ve got no idea)
- put some money in EUR, USD, CNY, and move from one account to another depending on the exchange rate
- get back to selling homebrewed mead, as I used to do the first years here
- open a business, like a coffee shop, bar, some simple eatery… but I’ve no experience and it could be too much of a risk
6b) open a 7/11 some day???
- retire in a MUCH cheaper place
Anyway… i could always go back home, but I’m getting old for getting a job easily, and my home land is totally fucked up with the crisis…