In Taiwan, red tape requirements vary by location, by staff member, and by what mood they’re in on the day you visit. The same is true for their pseudo-embassies in other countries. I think they secretly get off on pulling our strings at random. It’s the only power they have in their pathetic little lives. So what do you do? Gather the best info you can, show up on the appointed day with all the documents ANYONE says you might need, but give the official ONLY the documents they asked for. Keep the others up your sleeve. There really is a reason for this tactic. You see, they delight in telling you that your application is complete except for one more document. No matter how many you provide, they will invent one more that you need. They love to see that disappointed look on your face and they delight in forcing you to come back on another day. They’re bloody sadists, I tell you.
Now, by keeping the other docs up your sleeve, when they tell you you need just one more thing, and you ask them “is that it? really, I just need ONE more thing, NOTHING else?”, and they confirm it, then you can pull that doc out.
I recently heard that there has been some kind of change in the rules – apparently the household registration changes are now made on the same day and at the same location as the notarial marriage (I’m presuming you’re doing notarial – I haven’t read the full thread). So that would jive with what you’re being told.
We had to provide a bilingual version (similar), and it had to go through my liasons office (AIT). So that seems right. I think that we then had to get that CERTIFIED as true at MOFA before the wedding (which is of course UTTERLY ridiculous, given that the single certificate was nothing but a notarized statement BY ME that I was not already married – so what good could MOFA’s certification POSSIBLY do?), but my memory is a bit hazy.
[quote]You really don’t need to have witnesses present?
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I was told we needed two. But hey, whether it’s true or not, surely you can find two or more friends you’d love to share the event with – we did, and we’re still very, very happy that we shared it with them. So invite a relative or two, or a friend or two, and a friend to take pictures. You won’t regret it.
Well, keep in mind that you want it to me a moment of joy and an everlasting memory for both of you, so just take a chill pill, and keep in mind these are just little hoops to jump through. You’ll forget the hoops later and will remember the positive moments.
Add up all the things they say you need to do, and do them all, so you haven’t neglected anything.
And keep that chin up!