Yup, never went into this half assed, thinking to feel it out. Jumping into the abyss with eyes wide open here. A challenge? Yes it is of course .But im up to it.
Living large and on the edge, but LIVING the POSSIBLE.
Of course shes not going to go back to Indo every year for two months now is she? Ever heard of a transition?
Ever heard about thinking one way , and then finally being able to accept a new way?
I am humbled by all the affection shown to me here But not much has been shown to her by most so far.
Shes the one who had to leave her home and her family and her friends and a life she knows for one that she doesnt.
Granted its not cost her money and in in fact she has had a bit of material gain so far. But its a challenge for her too.
Shes adapting well enough so far. Lucky with skype, shes able to converse with her family and friends for hours a day and that is very comforting for her. I enjoy watching her talk to her buds.
Shes been obedient and willing to cooperate and work with me. Listening to what i say, offering her opinion but willing to work with me.
Ultimately a couple who is willing to work with each other is the one that is going to go the distance.
Having that commitment to make it work, in spite of difficulties.
I think shes adjusting well. Given the circumstances. And i am very pleased with her. I feel she of the same mind as well.
We are all “victims” of our own particular set of experiences. PGdaddy has been bitten twice by TW ladies and taken for a long long ride down a slippery slope.
With that kind of experience, one can be forgiven for being negative.
It could all go south for me too. But im betting its all going to work .
And I aim to do my best to make it happen.
Food is a challenge but shes overcoming that by cooking her own food, now that i took her to an asian supermarket. Whopper scares her still. She has a love/scare relationship with him so far.
She loves him but is getting back a lot of hisses and snaps and growls. And shes not convinced that whopper is just playing. If he wanted to bite her he wouldve already.
She resolved to not associate with him today at all. Causing consternation and distress in the poor beast no doubt.
So they are not on speaking terms tonite. She tried to make up with him earlier but got hisses back. He had tried to make up with her earlier today but got spurned.
She obviously does NOT know how to handle animals