[quote=“Richardm”]
That reminds me of how I felt during the Vietnam war. I was in High School and when they played the National Anthem at assemblies I wouldn’t stand up. I don’t think that’s unpatriotic. Standing up for what you believe in and trying to make a peaceful change for the better is very patriotic. (In a USA point of view.)[/quote]
Thanks Richard, you make me feel young. I was just a baby back then. I find what you say here very interesting, in fact I feel a little bit more like a patriot now.
[quote=“Dangermouse”]I’m patriotic to a people and a land and a set of values, rather than to a government or institution.
Kind of like what Sandaman was saying.[/quote]There’s the crux I think. Like I mentioned in my earlier post, I dislike my country “in a way”. But I don’t dislike all of it. The land where I come from is something I will always love. From the old Laurentians to the Rocky Mountains, no doubt it’s a great heritage.
I tend to see support for the government as an integral part of patriotism. According to some responses in this thread, others surely think of it that way as well. Since I do not support the crooks, I suppose they would be quick to label me unpatriotic and I’m willing to wear the title proudly even if some may think that it is “not pretty.”
“People, sets of values”? I’m divided here because the values we hold at heart are also part of the problem and too often it doesn’t pay to be patriotic, it costs.
Here’s an example or two. My father in law has raised two daughters working for a big road building company in Saskatchewan. Great people living a simple life. He worked for this company for like 25 years until the owner died. The owner’s son took over the business and ran it into the ground within two years. At 55 years old, the man found himself unemployed and despite having worked hard for that long and despite being a decent patriot, he finds himself accepting money from his daughter to pay for his property taxes in order not to lose his house. Nice to have values and be patriotic about them but Christ what good does it do if you can’t even own a house after slaving your whole life?
My mother’s boyfriend has now been unemployed for the last month and money is getting scarce there too. The man worked all of his life an average of 50 hours per week and at 62, he has to worry about how to come up with enough money to put food on the table. Could our values actually have anything to do with that? I think so, and one value commonly shared by many is called patriotism.
It doesn’t pay off to be patriotic and that’s why I refuse to be so blind and oblivious. If to you, being a patriot means holding fond sentiments about a place, then I’m a patriot. If it means to be proud of certain values that cause hard working tax payers to have nothing in return, or if it means to support the crooks that the government is made of, then count me out.
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