A disgrace to this forum

This topic is a disgrace to this forum (as is this anal sex thread). It is not even remotely related to Taiwan and I guess it is not significant in 99% of all posters’ lives.

I am not a fan of heavy moderating and I don’t support it in this case either. But people, please, there are places on the internet where threads like this one would be most welcome and I am sure you would find an audience which will be more responsive and knowledgable too.
If you really, really have to talk about your sex lives or your sexual fantasies, then going there would be a splendid idea.
And, yes, noone forces me to look at this thread, but I roll my eyes whenever I go to the open forum and see titles like “are taiwanese girls really that much into blowjobs?” or “help! my girl’s pussy is too tight!”

Thank you.

Not related to Taiwan: I guess that’s why it was posted in the Open forum and not the Living in Taiwan forum.

If the subject of sex makes you uncomfortable you needn’t read this discussion: the title was clear. But it’s really not so icky if you think of it – after all, even your parents did it. . . and mine. Well, may be not in orgies, but at least one-on-one. Personally, I find many of the political discussions to be much more offensive. If this forum was limited to discussions on teaching methodology and Taiwan’s political status I think most of us would have grown bored and moved on to Tealit.

Cranky, I agree, the nature of a society’s pornography says something about the society. For a great scholarly analysis of porn and other subjects in Japan read Ian Buruma’s, “Behind the Mask: On Sexual Demons, Sacred Mothers, Transvestites, Gangsters and Other Japanese Cultural Heroes.” He’s a great author and that’s a fun book.

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[quote=“t.ukyo”]This topic is a disgrace to this forum (as is this anal sex thread). It is not even remotely related to Taiwan and I guess it is not significant in 99% of all posters’ lives…

And, yes, noone forces me to look at this thread, but I roll my eyes whenever I go to the open forum and see titles like “are Taiwanese girls really that much into blowjobs?” or “help! my girl’s pussy is too tight!”[/quote]

If you look at the name of this website it is “FORUMOSA.COM: Taiwan-oriented Online Community.” Plus, if you roll your cursor over the “Forums” link you will see a statement that says, “Join Taiwan’s best discussion website in English.” Both of these things would lead me to believe that though this forum is “oriented” toward Taiwan it is not a “never-discuss-anything-that-ain’t-related-to-Taiwan” type forum. And, I think the fact that it has an “Open” forum bears that out.

To me, this is a discussion site for English-speaking people who live/work/study or have some association with Taiwan (perhaps they used to live here, they are Taiwan-philes, or Taiwanese expatriates living somewhere else). And, again, though the focus is on the Taiwan experience it isn’t limited to that.

Besides, I have never seen threads with the titles you mentioned. Not that I’d be too interested in them, being that I like guys. :shock: So, I’d probably just roll my eyes :unamused: and scroll past them. Which is probably what you should do.

As for your assumption that these type of threads are not interesting to 99% of the posters… Well, this thread alone has had 43 posts and 784 views and was only started Sunday. While a post in the International Politics forum titled “White Male Victimology” that has been around since last Thursday, only has had 18 posts and 349 views. And, one titled “How the Chinese helped Iraq fight the US” has been around as long as this thread and has only had 1 response and 42 views.

Now, I know that some threads are more popular, even in the (ho-hum) international politics forums. However, my point is that I don’t think your assumption is correct. Despite your view that these threads are not relevant to posters, I think people do find them relevant and/or interesting and fun. And, apparently, you find them interesting enough to read, despite all your mock-outrage and eye rolling. :wink:

[quote=“QuietMountain”]Besides, I have never seen threads with the titles you mentioned. Not that I’d be too interested in them, being that I like guys. :shock: So, I’d probably just roll my eyes :unamused: and scroll past them. Which is probably what you should do. [/quote]I think t.yuko was saying which way they don’t want the conversations to go.
As for ignoring this thread, I do, I’m far to innocent to read this.

Of course I am not reading this either.

[quote=“t.ukyo”]
And, yes, noone forces me to look at this thread, but I roll my eyes whenever I go to the open forum and see titles like “are Taiwanese girls really that much into blowjobs?” or “help! my girl’s pussy is too tight!”

Thank you.[/quote]

No, thank YOU! I never knew about those threads. Where are they? Links please!

T.ukyo, best bet for you would be Vibe, seeing as that all you need is to get laid.

Alleycat, thanks for your kind advice. I immediatly went to the next bar, picked up a cornermonkey and performed the following acts:

exchange sloppy French kisses
feel her up under her shirt
play with her tits a little
move to third base in no time at all
tell her to get on her knees and give me a blowjob
turn her around and bang her in the ass
traditional doggy
woman on top
spoon position
missionary
moneyshot all over her face.

I got her phone number, and she is willing to try a threesome, so please PM me if you are interested.

A “cornermonkey”?

[quote]Alleycat, thanks for your kind advice. I immediatly went to the next bar, picked up a cornermonkey and performed the following acts:

exchange sloppy French kisses
feel her up under her shirt
play with her tits a little
move to third base in no time at all
tell her to get on her knees and give me a blowjob
turn her around and bang her in the ass
traditional doggy
woman on top
spoon position
missionary
moneyshot all over her face.[/quote]

I don’t believe you. The people who boast about it are the ones who aren’t getting it. (Apart from Tomas.)

Soon changed your tune, didn’t you? Claiming to have lost your virginity has obviously opened up a whole new world for you.

Alien’s busy, but I’m up for it if you don’t mind being the one in the middle. Actually Taiwanese women aren’t that great, so let’s get Quiet Mountain to sort you out from the other side.

Why was this moved here, instead of to the flame bin?

[quote=“stragbasher”]
I don’t believe you. [/quote]

You are not serious, right? Please don’t tell me you didn’t get my post.

Well, at least we are on the same page on this one.

t.ukyo-san, what are you doing online anyway? Shouldn’t you be spending the time studying your Bible?
[color=blue]Jesus loves you! [/color]

anybody ever check out www.icered.com ? kinda like forumosa but so much more. they seem to allow all the conversations to have their own spots.

[quote=“wolf_reinhold”]t.ukyo-san, what are you doing online anyway? Shouldn’t you be spending the time studying your Bible?
[color=blue]Jesus loves you! [/color][/quote]

It is not a matter of religion for me. I am not even Christian or anything, so how could I care?
I think sex is something that should be kept private. It certainly should not be layed out in public and used for semi-voyeuristic discussions about prefered sexual practices.
If people want to have threesomes, anal sex, be swingers, bonk a horse…go ahead. I really don’t mind what people are doing in private.

However, I find it embarrassing and inappropriate when things like this are discussed on a forum like this one, since more often then not they have an element of boasting.
My initial post got a handful of replies that implied I was sexually frustrated or jealous. This is not the case. But the responses showed that the thread indeed was a stage for some to talk about their sexual prowess and seemingly impressive sex lives.

If people want to keep on having nonsense threads like that, whatever, I am not your mother who tells you to wash your mouth with soap after saying words like “dick” or “pussy”.
I just said what I think about this situation, and I was hoping I might talk on behalf of not just myself but a group of people who are equally put off by sex-threads.

Thank you.

To each their own. If I reacted to the threads I don’t like in the same way, and everyone else did the same, then there would be no-one here.

If you don’t like a thread then start one on something else. This is the equivalent of walking in on someone else’s conversation and telling them to shut up. The correct response is to find someone else to talk to, not to make yourself into everyone’s enemy.

You’re not in a ‘no sex’ forum. You’re in a meeting place for adults. If you don’t want the subject to come up then limit yourself to the technology or teaching fora. Either that or just go and find somewhere else to be self-righteous.

Either accept the standards of the community, or go find (or start) your own community.

If that’s what people want to talk about, then that is what people want to talk about. There are plenty of threads I don’t like, but they’re all the International Politics forum, and I don’t read them.

But, Jeeze :unamused: What’s got into everyone lately ? Is it a full moon or something ? Can you try to behave a little ? (but not too much :wink: )

You all have a very good command of English, better than myself, I am sure. So, please read what I actually said.

Did I tell you to NOT talk about sex on forumosa? No. I only said what I personally think about it. I am not on a crusade against sexual openess and I am also not on a mission to clean this forum of sexual discussions. So why do some people tell me to “fuck off if you don’t like it here” or “noone, and certainly not YOU, is telling me what to say”?

I was suggesting that there are people who find sex threads rather annoying. Seeing that there are other places on the internet where one could talk about sex even more freely, why not discuss it there? If I wanted to talk about video games, I would certainly not come here and start a thread about it.
So, if you want information about anal sex for gays, go to a gay forum and you will find many more people who will be glad to share their insight.
If you want to discuss it here, I would not stop you even if I was the moderator. But it would be nice if you kept in mind, that not all people think the same about sex on forumosa.

I respect your wish to discuss sexuality on this forum, so please give me the same respect when I say something that goes against what you think.

Too right! Especially when they get caught in the back of the throat. Shaved is the only way to go.