Advice and tips on dating Taiwanese girls

Thanks all for the advice, it has really helped. I will keep you all posted…cheers

After my post, my girlfriend and I talked about being much more straight forward with each other when it came to daily decision. In the end it all works out, she accompanies me to where I want to go, followed by me going to where she wants to go. Usually I have to pay the monies for her decision, but hey, what kind of boyfriend would I be if I didn’t pay.

I believe Taiwanese parents will help their daughters to select better financial prospects because they don’t want their daughter worrying about financial all day long and most poor Taiwanese marriage fight for money all the time without happiness.

In general, if a Taiwanese girl wants to marry a male, will introduce her boyfriend to her family because Taiwanese culture is respecting old people in principle. Secondly, if a Taiwanese girl always requires her boyfriend to pay money for her, I believe she won’t be a good girl to Taiwanese males because they will think this girl just wants to take advantage of her boyfriend for money not very polite to consider about her boyfriend. Thirdly, I believe there is no culture mistakes if you are a very polite person that is why many Taiwanese people like to visit Japanese culture so polite attitudes as I know. Last one, most Taiwanese parents might consider about your ability to shoulder your own family in finance because Taiwanese parents hope their daughters can marry with a male without worrying in education tuition fees for their children, living qualities, and daily necessaries are good sufficiently to their daughter that is called love from parents in Taiwanese views I have heard.

I hope this information can help you as a Taiwanese female. God bless you!!!

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Expect to pay for everything when you go out with a taiwanese girl. The locals here have been poor too long to such an extent that they value the materialistic side of existence. It is very similar to primitive tribes offering sheeps or cows as sacrificial offerings. In this case, you may be the cow or sheep offered to go up in smoke (or your money anyways). Why can’t you find a nice western lady??

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I find this a little bit based on misconceptions about poverty and the causes of being materialistic. I also think it’s almost racist.

First, being poor for a long time doesn’t make you materialistic; there are millions of examples around the world about people who live or have lived with US$1 or less per day and they just don’t care about material things, even if they have the opportunity to get rich.

Second, Taiwanese girls expect their boyfriends to pay for everything (if we accept this generalization) not because they are materialistic or because they have been rich or poor, but for other cultural reasons.

Third, in your last line you imply that a Western lady is a better choice than a Taiwanese one. Sorry, but the guy fell in love with A PERSON who, for him, is nice enough. Being Western (or Eastern, or from wherever other place) doesn’t make you any nicer. Of course, there are some cultural differences to consider, but if they love each other, they can find a way to overcome them.

The reason I am not with a western girl is that I’m attracted to Asian girls. I find western woman not my taste, however there are a few that I am attracted to but they are few. I could give you my reasons why I like Taiwanese/Chinese/Japanese/Korean girls the most but it would start a bitch fight.

I have excepted that I have to pay for things due to the cultural aspect. This girl has told me about that this is expected for respect. There have been occasions where I have had no cash on me and only a card and the shop only lets you use cash. She has paid with no issues…

I have found this girl a little temperamental. Very sweet but you only have to do a little thing and she can get annoyed. She is a escort so it’s a very strange situation.

Your GF is an escort?

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Yes…she’s a real spark plug this one…

But she’s just like any other average girl you would meet or go out with or marry…

good for YOU !! Thats the spirit.

What he was really asking was : how did you find out she was an escort? :popcorn:

Actually if a poster (who is able to speak freely without the burden of being known to others on the board) is able to expound upon this important subject. We could all learn a thing or two.

Some truths, half truths, etc:

  1. most men are , at some time in their lives very willing to avail themselves of the services of an escort or two or three.

  2. those same men usually shun a relationship with the same (outside of a sexual relationship). And are not willing to actually marry an escort or former escort should they know of her history.

  3. but where do all those women go? Could it be some of them hide their past and marry ?

  4. some girls (or many ) who are not actually escorts actually have had more sex with more partners then the professionals. Are these girls more or less “morally sound” ?

  5. society teaches us to look down on women who for whatever reasons work the “oldest profession” ?
    and yet, our very same society builds up the MEN who are very promiscuous. Making them into “alpha males”.

Double standard?

Yes women who ply mankinds oldest trade are a microcosm of the world at large. There are nice ones and not so nice ones.

Yes perhaps they are “morally” handicapped if they engage in something that is considered a moral sin. But so are those who are addicted to gambling.

I say those who are able and willing to pursue a lady of the night and see her as a regular girl are better men then the most of us… tommy included.

Iv had a few ladies of the night myself. And a few I pondered a relationship with even, but I was less the man then the OP.

Granted there are unique challenges.

This topic is certainly more avant - garde then most forumosa threads. Perhaps more sanguine for the french then most.

Or as we say in America. . . Its OUT there !

I am just hiding my internal
W.T.F. ??

I don’t think the fact that she’s an escort is a problem per se - as I said (although it appears to have disappeared) that’s between the two of them. It’s that an escort will inevitably have some odd ideas about money, and to that extent I disagree with Hank79 that she’s “culturally” the same as any other Taiwanese girl.

It’s true that a lot of girls here are feckin’ clueless with money and expect the BF to just hand out cash. But that, I suggest, is simply because nobody has ever bothered to teach them what money is or what it’s for. Despite the Western idea that Chinese people are canny with money, I’ve found this simply isn’t true - what’s more accurate is to say that those who are canny with money are likely to do well in Chinese society, simply because so many other people are too willing to spend it thoughtlessly.

An escort is likely to have deep emotional issues about money. Spendthrift Taiwanese girls (who can’t be convinced to handle money properly - whether theirs or someone else’s) just aren’t very bright.

Im not sure its a deep emotional issue about money . MOst escorts do it as a job that pays the bills. They may have some situation that put them in that position. Some , or perhaps even many, later come to “enjoy” their jobs. AT least some do I am sure.

Its their ability to do whatever it takes to get the money they feel they need.

Doesnt make them better at handling money though. Because they often fall into the trap of competing with each other in owning gucci handbags and other accoutrements.

Well the line bewteen an escort and a regular girl is pretty thin.
As most women has, have been and will trade sex for confort and money in her life in a way or another, be it explicit or non explicit.
(not PC to say this, i know)

So i really don’t think his gf being an escort is an issue.

What is more the issue is the way taiwanese girls seems to handle money wich seems to be a real problem, according to you guys.

Most TW young ladies are not good with holding on to money. We can probably hold that to be true. IN fact most young ladies PERIOD are not good with holding on to money.

HECK, im not too good with holding onto money either (i always seem to have a female around that can spend it for me).

spruce up your chinese speaking abilities. It will widen very considerably the number of girls you can interact with in Taiwan. Fact is , probably 90pct of Taiwanese girls speak next to zero english.

youtube.com/watch?v=8wAF4llmd78

:lick: → :noway::ponder: