Yea I just don’t play their game. You never win and they’re in it for themselves, not you. At least gay guys can go to a sauna and have one night stands. Don’t know if lesbians do the same.
When dating, any time you constantly meet people who don’t align with what you’re looking for, you should consider the possibility that you have a role to play in your misfortune.
For example, if you prioritize superficial characteristics, don’t be surprised to meet people who do the same.
I mean to say, I do not discriminate gender when it comes to dating.
But I’ve found throughout my life that I’m able to connect emotionally with another man. If I find a woman that I can share a bond with, I’m open to that too. But so far in my life women are a closed door to me. They maintain a certain distance, I do not know why.
There are more women in public and shops like this Bitch Fry-Fry - #2 by afterspivak , but in fact more men but seems they like to be at home (or offices) and even more so nowdays they can get food at home… Most women do not want be a princess but the freedom do what they want and can do that more more as earnings get better with better education.
I (a white woman) am in a relationship with a Taiwanese man. Have been for about five years now. He does most of the cooking, cleaning and laundry before I have the chance to realize it needs to be done. I have noticed that I’m left to manage the finances, but other than rent, utilities, and groceries, there’s not much to be keeping an eye on.