[quote=“Ducked”][quote=“ThreadKiller”]But who wants to hear about some girl’s disgust at finding one or two cockroaches?
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Yeh, right!
Oh, wait…
http://www.forumosa.com/taiwan/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=71025
I havn’t read it. Does she complain that “I’m cold and this weather sucks 2010-11” as well?[/quote]
Well, I hope I’m not going to break any hearts here - but neither of these threads are ones I frequent much.
It’s one thing posting a pet peeve in a forum where there are going to be many different ideas presented. We each have things that we feel suck about Taiwan. But then there are also other things that we do appreciate.
I don’t mind her article TOO much - I mean some of her perceptions of taiwan are apt - it’s just her reactions to things that make me feel she is (or was then, at least) a rather sad individual.
I have sincere sympathy for people who come to Taiwan alone, end up in a really small town (when Taipei with its foreigner comforts would have been a better bet, had they known before), where literally nobody speaks English, and where they have no contact with other teachers and therefore no way of knowing to what extent the boss is being an asshole. People do get raw deals sometimes and life away from home can be harsh.
The lady under discussion, however, didn’t get a raw deal - it was Taichung (not the biggest, but not - by far - the most inconvenient), she came with her boyfriend, they stayed with another friend, she met other foreigners (but seemed to have trouble making concrete friendships ), and she seems to have had a good job (the one thing I didn’t notice her complain about).
I like moaning about life as much as the next person and while it might not have been her fault - she simply lacked any exposure to any other lifestyle before she came - you simply have to see the positive as well as the negative.
She wasn’t just complaining about cockroaches, but about the pollution, the general oddness (e.g. betel nut chewing), the difficulty of finding her way around (oh my God - once she had to cancel a doctor’s appointment because she couldn’t find the place), the irritation of trying to communicate without words.
While I don’t think the article fits my definition of good writing, I do think it’s silly that Taiwanese in Canada are up in arms about the article (I mean they would be in Taiwan if they loved it so much, and people have the right to publish their opinions). But I strongly suspect that the writer must be a sourpuss who spent her time in Taiwan telling other people how she was trying so hard to adapt while (unconsciously) not really trying at all. At least she only stayed for 7 months; I’ve known people who have gone on for 5 or more years about how strange the Taiwanese are.
The article reminds me of one in South Africa’s YOU magazine a long time ago. Girls writing of their horrible experience - there wasn’t even anywhere to hang their washing in the apartment (The horror! The horror!).
Why would you want to tell people how you, as an ex-pat, couldn’t find anything to enjoy in a country, when clearly so many others before you have found something? And then end with crap about it having made you appreciate the world because you needed to end your article on a positive note and make yourself look better?
Some people do have a difficult time in their first year, but they take the edge of with a drink, a prayer, or friends. I wish her the best now, but I suspect she is a teetotaling atheist who has difficulty connecting.