oneofdaroughs:
There was an obvious sign this was going to happen. As soon as she moved on to a new country without you, that’s the clearest sign her job or her desires are more important than you. You were valuable enough to her to let you travel around the world so she could ignore you. Cutting you from Facebook is just another message to you after you missed the other two colossal billboards. Emotions always cloud thinking…but pity parties attract usually only the saddest bunch. If you are happy in your own life, a good woman will see that and have opportunity to follow.
and to the OP, don’t feel bad bro. I was married to a woman who i finally realized thought of my whole being as worth less than a cellphone. It was a shock for me to realize that , but that finally set me FREE. MY SPIRIT SOARED AT THE REALIZATION OF THAT FACT.
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Even at the age of 44 and not ready for an relationship?
jdsmith
November 20, 2020, 11:19am
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One shall surely outpace the other.
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jdsmith
November 20, 2020, 11:20am
44
You might wanna bring this up in therapy.
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It’s a joke
I’m sure women say the same of men
Because underneath women are just men and men are just women
Under the role play
jdsmith
November 20, 2020, 2:25pm
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This also. Huge problem if you actually believe this.
Hygge
November 20, 2020, 3:47pm
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4 happy ones and 1 unhappy?
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Oh yeah I forgot men are from Mars and women are from Venus
They are actually completely different SPECIES
Men are Homo sapiens and women are homo something else entirely
Nah. The two are vastly The Same
jmee
November 20, 2020, 9:52pm
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I don’t want Tommy to get therapy! I like his posts just the way they are. (Does that mean I need therapy, too?)
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jdsmith
November 20, 2020, 10:11pm
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Everyone needs therapy. That you think you should, as well as Tommy, is an excuse.
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Jd must be a shrink or has equity in a chain of shrinks
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They say or was it Tommy who says
Wine Women and Whine go hand in hand
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jdsmith
November 21, 2020, 10:31am
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Or neither. I’m not so selfish or greedy. I believe too many people ignore caring for their mental health to their detriment. I find it preferable to talk to people who get paid to listen about how to better my life for me and those around me. I like learning how to identify goals, obstacles to my goal and then reason out how to bridge the gap. I like learning and applying strategies that give me peace and order.
But whatever…back to you T-Bone Steak. How’s the wife?
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Mental health is a topic societies wants to sweep under the rug. Unless that society is in Scandinavia.
jdsmith
November 21, 2020, 10:49am
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Sure, man. Believing what you want isn’t necessarily believing facts.
Therapy is no doubt wonderful
I would love to have my favorite shrink like I do my barber and pay 150 dollars an hour
I self shrink and I think I am doing fine thanks all the same
Normal people have friends who are normal and we can all shrink off each other
Besides if I need a review of all that is wrong of me I am sure my ex wife still has that catalog.
In the meantime I will just continue to look in the mirror and say you are not going to suck today you are a winner not a whiner and carry on .
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Someone needs to tell Trump that
He gave a statement yesterday that he won the election
Can a good shrink or team of shrinks go to the White House please
I believe he will have to be physically dragged out of there Jan 20
I don’t like Biden or Trump and I voted for trump but
His idea to be a Putin in the White House is not sound
It’s not the age of your body but the age of your mind that says you are ready or not
Or to put in another way your state of mind determines readiness
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jdsmith
November 21, 2020, 4:18pm
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You have no copay? I pay $10