[quote=“Maoman”]I thought some of the comments from Canadian MPs were quite eloquent:
I suspect Maoman and I are in general agreement on this issue, but the highlighted portion of the quote, above, is absolutely ridiculous.
We each have our own ideas about what rights are, or what rights should be. Ultimately, a right is whatever it is defined as being, by whatever law or speaker or society is making the judgment.
How about someone’s right to marry two spouses? “No, sorry, the right is only to marry one person.” “Why?” “Because we define the right as only applying to people who want to marry one person.” “Why? We’re not hurting anyone.” “Well, it’s just because many in society think it’s wrong – so we define the right so as not to include that.” “Well that’s discrimination!” “No, it’s just how society chooses to define marriage. Anyone who wishes to enter into a marriage that fits society’s subjective judgment about what a marriage should be, may do so – no discrimination.”
How about the right to marry your sister? “No, sorry, we define the right as being only the right to marry someone who is not a blood relation.” “Even if my sister is infertile and so none of the arguments about having genetically unhealthy babies exists?” “Yes, even then.” “Why?” “Well, it’s just because many in society think it’s wrong – so we define the right so as not to include that.” “Well that’s discrimination!” “No, it’s just how society chooses to define marriage. Anyone who wishes to enter into a marriage that fits society’s subjective judgment about what a marriage should be, may do so – no discrimination.”
Whether you approve of defining this particular right such that it includes a person’s right to marry someone of the same sex or not, it is either intellectual laziness or intellectual dishonesty to pretend that all that is being done is applying the same right to everyone. The real question is: What should the right be?
Glibly saying “a right is a right” implies that the definition of the right is settled, and it’s just a question of applying that right equally to everyone. That may sound cute, or clever. That may make a good sound bite. But it’s lazy, and dishonest, and – in my opinion – a bad way of dealing with controversial issues. 