[quote=“antilogic”]1. Assumption… Assumption… And more assumption…
You based your argument solely on the assumption that majority of Taiwanese couples consisted of husband and wife who hate each other. Please show me statistics to support your theory, I challenge you. To successfuly refute my argument, you must give me statistics (family life satisfaction… etc) that shows Taiwanese couples who opt to remain in marriage are mostly angry husband/wife pairs. I challenge you to do that.[/quote]
Wrong. littleiron did NOT base his argument on that assumption… littleiron merely stated that many couples who were not happy have for various reasons stayed married in Taiwan. He did NOT state that most marriages in Taiwan are unhappy. Who’s making assumptions now?
[quote=“antilogic”]I’d reiterate my claim for your edification.
The reason that Asian countries enjoy such low divorce rate is mainly because majority of married Asian couples are satisfied with their marriages. (as statistics “ie. family life satisfaction rate” strongly suggested).[/quote]
Data? Moreover, define “satisfied”.
By itself, divorce rate does not mean anything. However, if you take a look at the overall picture, it does say a lot about eastern/western family values. Fact- more married Asian couples are satisfied with their marriages and their family lives than their western counterparts.[/quote]
Data?
Please show me how you establish the casual relationship, and the facts and numbers you pull to arrive to this conclusion. Hey! I thought I was the Olympic-class conclusion jumper! Guess who just won the gold medal? :P[/quote]
“Casual” relaionship? Do you mean “causal”? In any event, I recently read that Taiwan’s divorce rate was approximately 40%. I think I saw it in a report regarding an amended portion of Taiwan’s family law or possibly it was in the report about Taiwan’s Legislative Yuan seeking to mandate pre-marriage classes. Look it up if you think it is false.
About the relevant Taiwan laws governing divorce… if you are unaware of the legal regime regulating family relationships in Taiwan, perhaps you are not sufficiently informed to debate this topic. But there are plenty of Taiwanese lobbying groups, including the Awakening Foundation, that have been pushing for changes in the laws related to marriage and divorce in Taiwan. But if you still fail to see the connection, think of Ireland’s recent circumstances, where there was virtually no divorce up until a few years ago, when Ireland’s government made divorce legal.
- In my opinion, ‘westernization’ is Taiwan’s biggest problem. If you compare the statistics (such as domestic violence rate or the change in view toward extramarital affairs) from 30 years ago with present, I’m sure you’ll see the trends and agree with me. More exposure to Western culture for Asian countries means more failed marriages. Period.[/quote]
Again, who’s jumping to conclusions? Despite your TV upbringing, changes in Taiwanese society today are, IMO, more a result of modernization than they are of westernization. And if the Taiwanese want to go backward, who is stopping them from doing that? In 1776, 97% of the American people were farmers. Today, only about 2% of Americans are farming for a living. American society changed with the transformation from agrarian to industrial and again to hi-tech and services. Taiwan is undergoing similar changes and transformations. I think it is a mistake, and a sign of lack of objectivity, and or ignorance, to blame bad behavior in Taiwan on westernization. Moreover, it reflects an unwillingness to accept blame. Hopefully, not everyone thinks as you do on this matter.
personal experience… overgeneralization… I think… hmmm… [/quote]
That isn’t my quote. However, there is in fact, a place for empirical evidence in discussions such as the present one… so long as the poster identifies the same as personal observation rather than scientific fact… which the above poster did…
Of course. I just take it as the ramblings of an insufficiently informed individual… no offense