I think some people just are going to think keeping as many people from dying as the most humane solution no matter the number. Which is a legitimate argument.
But I think you and I are perhaps more accepting of the reality that some people are going to die today just like the day before. We prevent it as best we can like requiring seat belts to be worn, but we let people decide how they want to live/risk their lives every time they walk out the house in terms of risk/reward.