Hey! I need advice for a friend of mine…basically she was recently dumped by her boyfriend…and than 2 weeks later she basically found out that she was pregnant. She even asked him repeatedly to come with her to the clinic to look at the blood test results wiht her…But he refused…He just continues to ignore her…She is just very upset and distraught over this situation that she hacked into his email accounts and made up a damaging friendster account…but all out of anger but he has been ignoring her. He in turn has told all his friends all her personal business such as how she had an eating disorder and everying and now all of his friends think that she is crazy.
After ignoring her for awhile he finally did talk to her only because he wanted his passowrds back…after he got them back he continued to ignore her and say to her leave me alone i want nothing to do with you…a baby… never…etc…a lot of ppl have told her that apparently he has made his choice that he wants to be a dead beat dad…but i can understand for her…that it’s not an easy thing to do…to have this child and support this child on her own…she jsut feels very desparate, alone and distraught…so she emailed his parents informing them of the situatoin…because they might have the right to know?
I mean i know he has chosen to be a dead beat dad…but don’t yhou think he should take repsonsability? What should she do? Should she just move on and raise this child on her own ?
A lot of her friends have been saying…that he might wise up later on…but…she 's been saying …that it’s liek a now or never situation…that if he choses to ignore her and treat her like a piece of shit…and not support her from the beginning…she doenst feel she will ever forgive him or give him another chance later on…
so What do you guys think? Urgent adive needed! thanks