I met my wife in EU, fallow her to taiwan, living there for 4 years, got married, now we are back in EU. She did not wanna move, and i did not wanna live in taiwan. Eventually, she accepted, but was a lot of bad mood, negative energy and she did not really grab opportunities in europe. I even gave her financial support and 3 different eu countries to pick up. Personally, would be easier for me to stay in taiwan. Way less hassle, but question about long term
If you have second doubts, hold it, just hold it. Yea there will be pressure from her, and her parents. but so what, just hold it.
Sorry, but i have to be straight here, you should know taiwanese culture, your parents are taiwanese right? Taiwan is racist place, very superstious, people like to gossip. I mean you will lose face marrying a single mother. And people will treat you as taiwanese, cause you look like one of them. Does not matter you grow up in states. Society will give you zero respect. Is not like marrying divorce women in west. Is totally different game. Probaly she can not move to usa, cause in this case she will lose a son. Well is she from a rich family, prepare you will be a puppet of her parents, but yea they will love you for doing this great “favour”. You can have an easy life and simple not care. You could maybe get away if you have money and are older. In other cases you will lose a face.
If you want a married life, without own kids, and this kind of responsibility, this might be a good deal.
Otherwise i think you putting too much in it…