Then give us an example of how you would go about teaching this guy that what he was doing was wrong while keeping face intact for all involved. Give us an example of what you would have done to make sure that guy learns a lesson. I’m truly intrigued…
Face is one of the most important thing in this culture. If you think that’s just a blanket generalization, then so be it… I have no further comments at this point.
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obviously you struggle with the English language. I said I think YOU made a blanket generalization about face (not how you have interpreted above), and for the record I am fully aware of how things work here culturally and could probably school you on it.
now to answer your question:
to diffuse the situation, I would first get his attention by saying ‘hey’ or ‘oye’. Not shouting at him, just loud enough for him to hear me clearly and grab his attention (taking it away from the dog), more or less in a questioning tone (2nd tone in Chinese if you will).
There is a high probability that him just being seen by another human would be enough to make him stop, my guess is the guy was so brutal because he thought no one was watching. When he realizes someone else was there he’d probably just yell at the dog once more and saunter off.
then (if he still hit the dog after, which I would bet money he wouldn’t after seeing me, but I will placate you for this hypothetical intervention) I would get between him and the dog, put my hands up, open palms as if to say ‘enough.’ I really wouldn’t worry too much about him using the stick on me as odds are he wouldn’t, people here aren’t of a fight first mentality, and the Taiwanese NEVER fight one vs one (besides, he is a skinny little douche with orange hair who probably got smacked by his little sister).
Then I would tend to the dog giving him a WTF? style Weisheme? Dude’s rage would be diffused, and his tail would be between his legs as he went away feeling like a right prick.
now this is the last I will say about this, you may see things playing out differently and that is fine, but in reality none of this is real (our hypothetical actions and their hypothetical reactions to our hypothetical actions) so taking this any further is an exercise in futility.
IMHO getting the police involved is almost always the wrong move. It will only make this guy hate dogs further, and not see the error in his ways, he will need to learn that himself.