I’m an American, and have been friends with local girl for a bit. Lately, she’s been giving me some signals that indicate she’s looking for something more, but I can’t be sure. Do local girls prefer an aggressive man who’s upfront about feelings and leads the way, or or do they prefer a more passive, roundabout way of letting her know her feelings?
I understand that there’s no definite answer, as every girl will be different. It’s just that from my experiences so far, local women themselves (outside of pubs at least) tend to be quite withdrawn with their feelings, and shy away from assertive men. I don’t want to ruin a perfectly good friendship by being too forward, especially if that’s taboo in local customs. Any input would be most appreciated.