[quote=“ILoveItHereButIDoMissSnow”]It’s sort of a backward question at first. But I have honestly had a similar conversation…I don’t know how many times.
TW= A friend of mine got invited to go to a guy’s house.
Me = Does she know him?
TW= Yeah. He’s her friend. What should she do?
Me = Then…go I guess.
TW= She thinks he only wants sex.
Then mMe = aybe she shouldn’t go. I don’t know. I don’t know the guy.
TW= How can you find out if he only wants sex?
Me = I don’t know.
TW= He’s a foreigner like you…so figure you would know.
The conversation generally gets weirder from there.
Anyone else run into this from time to time? I know it might not fit under “dating in Taiwan,” but I don’t know where else to put it.
TW: a friend of mine got invited to a guy’s house ( she and i both know what HE wants )
ME: Does she know him? (thinks something is up and puts on white knights shining armor to try to save the damsel from what he knows will happen thru his lady friend)
TW: ya he’s her friend, what should she do? ( She and I both know what HE wants, and I was hoping you would too)
ME : Then…go i guess (what the heck shes not MY gf)
TW: She thinks he only wants sex (that is SOO obvious to her and I and I cant figure out why you dont KNOW THAT ???
ME: tHEN MAYBE she shouldnt go, i dont know , i dont know the guy ( HONESTLY? I rather talk bout you and ME , who cares bout that guy?? and that girl??? nothing to do with ME)
TW: how can you find out if he only wants sex? (OH PLEASE !!! HOW COME YOU ARE NOT GETTING THE IDEA??? I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU , HOW COME YOU DONT INVITE ME TO YOUR HOUSE??? AND DONT GET THE IDEA??? SHES GONNA GET LAID?? HOW BOUT ME??? )
ME : i dont know (and honestly?? what does your friend do with me? and im not responsible for what all foreigners think??? I dont follow this conversation at all !! )
TW: Hes a foreigner like you, so figure you would know (AND HONESTLY HOW COME YOU ARE NOT INVITING ME OVER??? AND IM GIVING YOU ALL THE CLUES IN THE WORLD HERE !1!! )
*conversation gets wierder and wierder because the two parties are NOT connecting and understanding what each other is trying to say. *******
I wouldve said "oh hhhh I think shes going to get laid "
her " no way" (but OF COURSE I KNOW THAT)
ME: so when are YOU coming over HERE??
EDIT (IN ADDITION)
Taiwanese girls want to be seduced and charmed (THEY are actually the ones doing the seducing and charming by the way) and are not usually going to be very upfront with you if they want to “mis behave” because they dont want to appear to be “bad girls”. they want the ONUS of reponsibility to be on YOU. iN CASe things unravel in the future, it will all be YOUR FAULT. And they can “escape without guilt” .
they are sooooooo not going to call you up and say “YO HOMEY?? IM FEELING LIKE. SOOOOO HORNY, SO ??? ARE YOU UP FOR IT?? YOU READY TO HANG??” (until you become intimate, then they WILL )
no , THEY dont talk bout sex with a male friend unless they are trying to give you some IDEA . Because you are not making any moves on her in that direction. Notice a taiwanese girl going out with you (and she likes you already if shes going out with you) will dress all sexy? If shes found out you love pretty legs, she will show up in hot pants that are super short. YOu think she just slapped something together??? HAHA , not so. YOu are a cd and shes playin ya brother !!