I have taught at a few high schools in Taiwan and can’t help noticing that there seems to be no shortage of attractive young ladies who appear keen to flirt with teacher. Sometimes they can be very forward.
Last year I even had two students explain to me - in class - that for a girl of 18 to seduce her teacher was a face-gaining activity because it meant that she was the most eligible of all the girls in the school. There was no mention of this being an abuse of the teacher-student relationship and when I tried to explain the concept I got blank looks.
Teaching adults is not much different, and I would be interested to know people’s thoughts on the whole idea of dating students. But I am even more keen to know what you have to say about the idea of shagging schoolgirls.
For the record let me say that I have never dated any of my students, and am not currently in a position to be even contemplating the latter proposition. But I know someone who may be and the topic come up over dinner recently.