The other day an older friend of mine was showing me some recent photos on her computer. After several innocuous family and tourist shots, she showed me several photos of her husband dressed in one of her negligees. He’s a big, hulking guy and she’s a tiny little thing. I was surprised, but didn’t know what to say, so said nothing. What would have been a proper response? And why on earth would she show me such a thing?
I wasn’t there so I can’t say for sure, but I’d guess because it wasn’t kinky but was just a joke, him being silly, hamming it up for the camera.
This guy, for instance. Would you describe this as kinky? I wouldn’t.
If she were to wear the negligee and show it to you … and not wearing knickers … that would be kinky … it all depends on your standards, and what work you do for a living … 
I have had quite a few Older Taiwanese women say it or mention it. Dunno if your friend is Taiwanese, but if she is then you’re just supposed to squeal ‘hao ke ai’. If she is not, then I would just make a big joke about ‘not wanting certain images in my head’.
I don’t know. Even if I had photos of my SO in my sexy unders as a joke, I think it’d be a PRIVATE joke.
I’d say, maybe she forgot they were in the bunch of photos she was showing, but then didn’t know what to say either? Or she was trying to invite you join in the fun? Or she was Taiwanese and has different ideas about cute and kinky and what might should have been kept between her and her husband?
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I’d say, maybe she forgot they were in the bunch of photos she was showing, but then didn’t know what to say either? [/quote]
On further reflection, I think this was it.
MT, maybe it wasn’t kinky, but do your friends show you photos like this? It seemed strange to me.
Maybe she thought you would swing that way and join in the fun! Jia You my friend! 
That thought occurred to me too. Many years ago back in the States I was dating a woman a year or two older than me who had an instatiable appetite for sex. Don’t get me wrong, I like to get it on too, but there comes a time when the sun is shining brightly through the curtains, so, that was all nice and good, but it’s time to shower up, get dressed, and get on with the day outside the bedroom. At least that was how I felt, but she would’ve gladly spent the whole day in bed, with multiple partners, something I’m sure she’s done on many occassions.
Anyway, one Thanksgiving a year or two after we had split up I was driving through her neighborhood so I thought, what the heck, why don’t I drop by and wish her a happy turkeyday. So I parked my car, went up and rang the bell, then after a very long wait she comes to the door dressed all in tights. And there in background, behind her is this guy I’d introduced her to, a very muscular little dude, former professional rockclimber, and he’s dressed all in tights too. They’re both very gracious and invite me in, but there was the oddest feeling in the air, with the two of them dressed like fairies. It seemed clear they’d been prancing about the house doing something out of the ordinary. So, with me the odd man out, standing there in my street clothes, a big smile lights up her face and she offers to get me a pair of tights too. I passed on the opportunity, thanked her, and went back out on my way, but I have no doubt what that would have led to.
So I suppose it’s possible you were being offered the same.
I was so hopeful when i saw the thread title. I now feel let down…
I left all my zoom lense pics of my ex on a computer which I donated to the recycling guy downstairs. Hope he fixed it and enjoyed himself to 'em! :roflmao:
Why the zoom? Was his willy small?
Like a salted slug!
I wanted to send these gastropodus substrictus close-ups to the National Geographic, or something, but they said that photos of this species in its natural habitat are ten-a-penny. I would have only got paid enough for a latte.
As big as that! Well at least I know they’re not of me. Or was it an exceptionally small salted slug?
Anyway for some reason I assumed this thread was in Temp when I posted, sorry for lowering the tone.
Venti.
As big as that/as much as that - not the same especially since the National Geographic bit was ninja edited in.
Anyway free money to the tune of a venti Starbuck’s latte, at London prices! Why not take it and buy a small bungalow up north?
Yeah, I always change my mind after I’ve said something.
No, I just meant that I had lots of pics. Ten-a-penny? Think, McFly, think. And eh? Starbucks cost the same throughout da yingguo …
buy a small bungalow up north
Few things would give me more pleasure, but for now I’m chosing to stay in this armpit of a town for ‘the opportunities’.
Edit The Open modboddoes are gonna defistulate-a dis fred.
Superdoublegood Edit I just ‘got’ fredsmith’s ‘user’ ‘name’.
I guess my etiquette, or planned response was pretty poor, in hindsight.
I was standing on the beach when some chap I know to say hello to walked up and says, “So, you’re phone’s on Bluetooth. I’ll send you something.” Next thing there’s a picture of his wife spreadeagled over the dresser, snapped from behind and filling my phone screen. I’m gobsmacked and he’s just leering over my shoulder. You could see what she’d had for brekkie.
To redeem the dude, he did insist I delete it. That was probably a good thing because I was fumbling around trying to send it to everyone I know with “Some crazy farker just sent me this pic of his missues!”
HG
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Superdoublegood Edit I just ‘got’ fredsmith’s ‘user’ ‘name’.[/quote]
Ah, thread smith?
Is that it? 
I took a while to figure out “I take it easy” (itakitez), and I’m still not sure if “bigal” is “Big Al” or “Bi-gal.”
You mean it’s not just his ‘real’ ‘name’?
Better than a pic of your wife over the dresser.
I find myself wondering why go through the palaver of sending it to your phone via Bluetooth, when presumably he could have just shown it to you on his? Does your phone have a particularly nice screen or something? OLED maybe?
No. Nothing special. It’s a Blackberry. I think he was trying to show me that he’d located my phone, which leaves me wandering what the hell he’s doing on a beach chasing down Bluetoooth connections.
HG