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I have no idea where ‘the line’ is regarding temp, so I hope I haven’t crossed it. Sex is good, right? I’ve never understood why our culture glorifies violence yet censors sex. That makes no sense at all. tommy525 ‘taking over’ seems perfectly harmless to me. [/quote]
I don’t know where the line is either, TBH, but I’m the one who will end up cleaning up the room after the party gets out of hand. I’m just asking that we talk about this like grown-ups. I temped some posts from another thread rather than try to edit them. Personally, I’m against censorship and don’t like to do that, but I also am against being worried to open a thread or a post at school or in front of my son. This is a thread that I feel could get even more explicit than the posts I temped before, thus the reminder and request to keep it PG13.
I have come across a number of asian girls who try everything to be unsexy, have zero need for sex, havent had any or much and most definitely do not want any. It has been so ingrained into them that sex is dirty and only “animals” do that. They would jump off a building rather then masterbate.
Iv been in bed (hopefully not too much info) with one such asian girl and she would let me do what I wanted to do but she took no pleasure in it and kept asking me if i was finished. Zero Fun.
Its not a wonder shes in her 40s now and still not married.
There simply are apparently quite a number of asian girls who have no desire for or a need for sex. This “software” glitch had been present since birth apparently, or drilled into them by their parents (who apparently never had sex either… or apparently not more then absolutely necessary).
p.s. and this extends to some asian girls born and raised in America too. I know one such girl.
Well, someone better teach them how, because just in my experience, a woman who doesn’t first have the practice of knowing how to pleasure herself - a man can’t please her, either. Women that never masturbate don’t know how to achieve orgasms. So OF COURSE they aren’t going to be able to enjoy sex, period. It’s not because they’re “born” that way, it’s simply because they don’t know how to do it right.
IN my travels and travails, some facts have come to light. One of them is that some girls really honest to goodness have no need nor desire for sex. Iv had the (dis)pleasure of knowing 3 such persons-with-female-genitalia (i dont think they qualify as girls/ladies/women because they are deficient in desire and incurable).
Excuse me? What kind of drivel is this? A woman who doesn’t get excited at the thought of getting with Tommy525 doesn’t qualify as female? There must be a hella lotta androgynous women out there!
Come on, Tommy, that’s just unspeakably dumb.
Women lose interest in sex for lots of reasons. Rape, religion, exhaustion, the thought of Tommy525, health problems, medication side effects, the thought of Tommy525. Just to name a few.
None of these things makes a woman less than a woman, or even incurable. Don’t be daft.
Not talking bout sex with tommy525. These ladies have no sexual interest in anyone. Iv heard them talk bout how other men have dropped them because they wouldnt give. And they have openly stated they wanted to find a boy/girl relationship that involved everything except the sex. I told them that is virtually impossible. It aint bout me always. MOst of the time it aint bout me at all.
Two of the above ladies I didnt even attempt to take to bed. One i could and did but am commenting she takes no pleasure in sex although she will put up with it. The other two simply are looking for a relationship sans the sex with a male person.
I dont know how many male persons there are who will have a male/female person relationship without any sex. There cant be many.
Unless the male person is gay and needs a female to hide his sexual preferences under. But a straight male ? Who wants a woman to do all the wife stuff without sex? There cant be many of those. I mean zero sex of any kind, no touching, kissing or anything. Even the impotent straight male would want something from a live in female that is supposedly his partner.
Yes, Tommy, men who have no interest in sex exist, too. There aren’t that many (or at least very few who will openly admit it), but I have met at least a couple of males who proclaimed that they have zero interest in sexual relations. I suspect it’s a lot more common than we realize because most people won’t admit it. Their actions speak very loudly, however… How many people do you know who don’t have a partner, and make no effort whatsoever to find a boy/girlfriend, and seem perfectly content with their celibate situation? C’mon, we all know LOTS of people just like that.
I know a few, but it doesn’t mean they don’t have sex or don’t play with themselves. They just don’t want the hassle of a girlfriend and the bollox that can come with it.
One friend just goes with ladies of the night.
So it’s all they have left. 
