Ex

I started dating this guy on May 12th and I found out on May 22nd that he was cuffed with a girl for 3 years but I didn’t know before until the day his girlfriend texted me…. The day I found out I was shocked, disappointed, and a tiny bit mad but I didn’t feel sad until the following day. I can’t get him off my mind, I feel torn, angry, disappointed, and I’ve cried a few times today… Why am I crying over somebody that I only dated for a week and four days?

do you live with your parents?

It’s part of your emotional defense mechanism. It’ll help you get him out of your system faster.

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Because you realized your relationship was based on a lie.
You need time to heal.
Don’t date anybody else for a while.
Hang out with your friends and focus on other things like your hobbies.
Take care and best wishes.

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@the_bear prescribes a bottle of Vodka.

Co-ed chain gangs is pretty progressive.

I think you’ve just solved the low birth rate problem.

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Also, someone who wasn’t honest with you and who cheats on his GF. You think he’ll be faithful to you?

Looks like you dodged a bullet, hope you thanked her :man_shrugging:

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You’ve gone from being hopeful for this new relationship to disappointed. They’ve let you down. Time is irrelevant here. Your feelings aren’t irrational

This. You got lucky, girl! :grin:

Guy

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Could be worse. You could be the girl that sent the text.

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