Hi. So I’ve heard from different people that you have to be very proactive and assertive as a foreigner (male) dating Taiwanese guys. People have told me that, generally speaking, they always wait for you to take initiative and move the ball forward.
Is this generalization at all true!?
I usually like to be “whisked away” and not do a lot of the advances/ball-pushing-forwardness – but I’ve been told if I am this way nothing will ever happen…I’ll be waiting around for forever. This is impart too because guys assume your Chinese isn’t good and they feel insecure about their English, and so they’re shy, basically.
Thoughts? What has your experience been dating/going on dates with/pursuing guys in Taiwan?