This is not rain. It is foggy gloomy cat hair mist with bout of windy horizontal frozen water blades. Horrible weather. I’d rather be in Japan -Theresa Teng singing in Japanese, right on cue, Tommy.
I understand the OP very well. Been here twice as long and there are awful days. Then there are bad, and then there are good. I have a Calvin and Hobbes cartoon that describes that perfectly. I do tell myself that the few friends I have are true. But yeah, people here leaving is a bum.
Luckily, Icon is off her rocker, so she’s got interesting hobbies -at least for her, and what the heck is wrong with airplane models?! I’ve met pretty interesting people at the fan clubs, too. Yep, Icon’s mid-life crisis is going pretty well, thank you very much. In all seriousness, my pets keep me grounded. When you have to walk the dogs, you meet other dog people. And you have someone to argue with. Classes and other structures activities force you out as well, and you meet new people. But most days I stay indoors and shut the world. It is a lot easier.