Flirting when you're not sure about the current sexual preferences of other person

Putting my progressive head on I can see a problematic conflation of sexual preference and gender identity in this thread.

Now, as for pigeon holing…

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Does she need a real life lesson?

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I haven’t read the majority of advice you’ve received, but I would deal with it like this:

Invite her to dinner. When the server comes to take your order, casually ask your dinner date if she wants the special of tube steak smothered in underpants sauce. If she politely declines then you know where you stand.

@tango42 did you satisfy your curiosity?

Just talk about the Filthy Pierre–it’s gender neutral! :laughing: