[quote=“housecat”][quote=“TaipeiSean”]Well the school did call me once as my boy had hit some kid (a year 3 kid, my boy is only in year 1) in the nose and made it bleed.
Thank you for your kind comments…[/quote]
That’s where I would have had a very serious time holding it together. You kid takes on a bigger kid for this ongoing name calling–and you get called. How many times did the year 3 kid’s dad get called about the name calling?
And those are not just kind words that Sandy and others handed you, and that I’m adding to. One of the reasons I might never return to Taiwan is that I don’t rellish the idea of being a single mom there. It’s hard enough here where I grew up. If I do it, I want to be working for an international school so I can teach at the same place he studies.
I’ve read your former posts about how you came to be a single dad. I’ve never in my life heard a man express such determination and dedication to fathering his child. Unfortunatly a shamefully large percentage of men would have left their sons to the mercies of others.
Happy Father’s day! (This Sunday)[/quote]
Thanks HouseCat. It is hard work, but like you say, it would be hard work back home too. I am sure you are doing a great job too. I just figure if my mom could do it by herself with 4 of us and my sister by herself with 2, I should be able to do it with just one. I really wish I could spend more time with him, but as the school hours here for him and the work hours for me here are so different, I need a babysitter during the week, then we try to do as much as we can together on the weekends. If I finish work early one day during the week, that is a blessing and I can go pick him up earlier and go to the park and play. Even though he will just run off to play with other kids, I am happy just to sit there and watch him. ANd even though the kids call him weiguoren, or meiguoren, (ha I should be more offended with that since he isn’t) he is a natural leader and he organises all the kids to play his game of ‘dung gwai’ chasings, or whatever they play these days. I am so proud of him.
With the schools, my ex-wife used to also say the same thing about TPE City vs TPE County, but I have seen some schools in Taipei City and when comparing them to my son’s school in TPE county, they are just as big and ugly, actually TPE county has more play area… but big ugly rooms with concrete floors old tables and chairs you see them in both areas. They all seem to be the same to me. And actually the kids I have taught in TPE county have been better behaved and more polite than most of the kids I have taught in TPE city, but then some of the Chinese Teachers then say it is because TPE CIty kids are spoilt, they are naughtier, amd that beacause TPE County people are poorer, the kids respect what their parents are doing for them more so are better behaved at English school.
So it is hard to work out. More name calling from TPE county because they are not in TPE City, but naugtier kids because they are in TPE City…
This is a strange old place…