good comment…without doubt foreplay is valuable. Still, your comment may say something about the ability of the ave. US or Aussie male, as opposed to Danish, French, Swedish, Kiwi, Brit, or Taiwanese men.
You also don’t mention size, which is valid-as Feng shui pointed out.
Also, the Chu Mei Fong video…helped by the clock at the bottom of the screen, I observed foreplay of 38 minutes, actual action of 7 minutes. Unbalanced, I feel. At least 10 minutes each way may be better.
The other question I have to ask is-why is all the onus on the men? Do women perform as well?
My last comment on this subject before getting a better log-in name I leave to Jerry Seinfeld:
"There’s very little advice in men’s magazines, because men don’t think there’s a lot they don’t know. Women do. Women want to learn. Men think, “I know what I’m doing, just show me somebody naked.”