One was 7 years older, one 4 years, and one 8 years older.
None of them treated me like a child. However, none of the women I’ve ever dated (older, younger, or same age) have treated me like one. My guess is it has more to do with your personality.
About eight years ago I dated a local girl and six months into the relationship she told me she was divorced with two daughters – one in high school and the other at university. I couldn’t believe it! She had the looks and figure of a twenty-year old.
hahah, wow. A few weeks ago I was dancing with this individual who I thought was in her late 20s (good looks and great body). We met through mutual friends who saw us dancing together and when we were all ready to go home, one of the guys took me to the side and said “Hey man, don’t take her home and fuck her. She is 45 years old man, with 9 year old daughter.” Funny thing is, a couple weeks later I accidentally let it slip that I knew she had a daughter and she started flipping out on her friends we were with.