Hey all just wondering if anybody else has a problem with gawkers and pepers?
I assume everybody here gets stared at like we are circus freaks, but does anybody else have a problem with their neighbors peepin at them?
I am constatntly catching my locals hiding at staring at me everytime I have a window open. It is very disturbing to have a 60 year old grandma hiding behind a plant and peepin at you. Whats more is that she does it with a window behind her so she is lit up from behind like a stage.
I always call her or anybody else I catch doing it with a wave and a hello, and I keep doing it until they either skulk away or pretend they do not see me; either way they stop, for a little while.
man, if you are gonna be a peper at least get good at it, you know?
This is not a one time thing this is an everyday thing, or every other day.
If someone stare at me like I got two heads I usually stop and look right back. Sometimes I open my mouth and make sounds like ‘Aaahhhh’ and rase my hand slowly to point at them, it usually sends em running.
It’s your call, obviously, but this strikes me as a practice which might end up taking up more of your time and energy than it is really worth. [/quote]
We all have expectations of privacy and or ways in which we will or will not be treated. To ignore something which makes you personally uncomfortable is just perpetuating the act.
If I make them uncomfortable by saying " hello I see you" they may eventually stop, or not. Either way I am letting them know I don’ like it.
In a polite but persistant manner.
My boyfriend and I walk around naked all the time in our apartment, and we have lots of big windows. If people want to look, they’re more than welcome! Actually, we have caught one neighbor peering at us while doing the horizontal mambo … I was a little bit freaked out, but my BF didn’t seem to care.
A lot of people here don’t seem to understand the concept of respecting other people’s privacy.
One time, I’d taken a girl to a remote place up in the mountains and, having made our way along a little stream into the middle of nowhere, not encountering a soul along the way, we stripped off our clothes and got down to business on a patch of grass beside the water. When we 'd finished and stood up, we were both rather discomfited by the presence of a fisherman blithely dangling his hook in the water just a couple of dozen paces away from us.
And another time with another girl in another place, we’d again gone far upstream to a suitably remote spot and, after frolicking around in the water for a bit, I’d just slipped her swimsuit down to her waist and was starting to fondle and kiss her breasts when she sounded the alarm, hastily covered herself up, and drew my attention to another bloody fisherman who had appeared on a rock almost directly above us and had dropped his line into the water just a few metres behind us.
I hope they both enjoyed the shows, but I’d rather they’d acted as I would have in such a situation and hurried on past while pretending not to look, instead of planting themselves right next to us and having a good gorp at the action.
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I hope they both enjoyed the shows, but I’d rather they’d acted as I would have in such a situation and hurried on past while pretending not to look, instead of planting themselves right next to us and having a good gorp at the action.[/quote]Count yourself lucky neither of them had a video camera or you’d have crowds in every night market pointing and staring at you
[quote=“Omniloquacious”]A lot of people here don’t seem to understand the concept of respecting other people’s privacy.
I hope they both enjoyed the shows, but I’d rather they’d acted as I would have in such a situation and hurried on past while pretending not to look, instead of planting themselves right next to us and having a good gorp at the action.[/quote]
Stop planting your seeds in public. One has to respect other peoples right to not have to look at your cock in public. If you are bonking on public land, that makes you fair game mate. If you are in your flat and copluating then you have a right not to be stared at. Shagging in a river doesn’t sound like a private place, no matter how ‘secluded’ you believe it to be.
Actually, we have caught one neighbor peering at us while doing the horizontal mambo … I was a little bit freaked out, but my BF didn’t seem to care. 
