Gentlemen, how long has it been and why?

Studdly Almos John wrote:

It’s rare that I’ve come across a man who has gone without sex, at least,let’s say 6 months tops. Yet, when I read the above statement from someone who lives in a place where the odds of meeting AND hooking up tend work in the man’s favor, I wonder why are there some men who aren’t hooking up. Guys, explain how long and why it was so long?

Two words. I’m Married.

And you want hugs?

Play nice little mod, play nice. Or we will take your joystick away.

Before I get floundered, I’d better say something on topic:

It’s been like my whole life cuz I pine for Loretta. But it’s like I don’t exist. It’s like she can’t see me thru the fog of my fag.

I went without sex for like 17 years once :astonished: .

ditto.

It’s always been less than that since then too.

Namahottie wrote [quote]6 months tops[/quote]

Haha - six months! That’s a stroll through the park on a pleasantly sunny afternoon.

Try going a couple of years! :sunglasses: um, I mean :blush:
Why? There are many reasons; Not being interested in casual sex, not finding the right person, striking out with those that you do like, being busy with work/projects, and taking time to get over relationships.

This is a hard one, what counts exactly again? Just needing a clearer definition before commenting. :blush:

Well that’s because you didn’t have a teacher like this…

True, true…

237,600 seconds. I’m starting to develop a headache its been so long :wink:

Namahottie ask a fair question (I think): How long has it been and why?

For me, a long time… 'bout a year. Why? F*%k knows 'cause everytime damn time I meet a potential candidate she melts like butter and says something like, “Stanley, you have the most amazing body I have ever seen”, or “Stanley you have the bluest eyes”, or “Stanley, you are such a catch” , or “Oh Stanley, you are most definitely marriage material…” However, they all seem to have one virtue in common – they don’t believe in sex before marriage. Damn! So what do I get for being a gentleman? Absolutely bugger all! I’m quite serious… maybe I should go for the married ones … no issue with sex before marriage then, is there? As a last resort I shall become one of those promiscuous bastards I detest so much… you know the guys entering the water hole ever so often with his latest aquisition on the arm, just to be dumped in the blink of an eye… Do I sound jealous? Right I am. God dammit!!

I wonder why she needs to know. Maybe some girls really believe that story of how a guy can die if he doesn’t get any soon.

Richardm wrote:

I’ve been wondering meself. Maybe she knows someone that can help?

Stop pickin them up at church functions and you’d get more than the sex before marrage thing…

[quote=“Chewycorns”]Maybe she likes using “sexual deprivation torture techniques” on her BF[/quote]What’s a BF??? :unamused:

Butch Femme.

Joking…BF is commonly used as an abbreviation for boyfriend although it is an incorrect abbreviation.

Now, now, now… be nice dear! But, I gotta admit I like the undertones…

I have to say something about this.

That statement is pure bullshit. I know you don’t believe me, but it is. How are the odds any better here? Not all Taiwanese girls, believe it or not, are sluts to the white man.

I take it DIY doesn’t count.

Bummer… :frowning:

I have to say something about this.

That statement is pure bullshit. I know you don’t believe me, but it is. How are the odds any better here? Not all Taiwanese girls, believe it or not, are sluts to the white man.[/quote]

Thank you for saying that. I’ve been busy.