[quote=“TheLostSwede”]I guess most of you guys have either been unlucky or just meet girls that aren’t interested.
I’m not even that great looking, but it’s never taken me anywhere near that long
Sure, some girls here are stuck up and want to play games, then good for them, it’s not like there aren’t enough girls here that would actually be interested in you.
Or maybe the “dating” scene has changed here in the past two years, I dunno, but I decided to stick with the last girl I meet when I was still looking, as she was too good to let go off [/quote]
Agreed. Every girl I’ve ever dated on this island I’ve fucked on the first or second date. The others I’ve cut loose quick smart. That’s not to say that the girls I’ve slept with have been airheads or slutty or anything else. Well, maybe some might have been airheads, and maybe some might not have been that confident in their sexuality, but felt like to be a “modern woman” they had to or whatever. Who knows. Some were certainly as actively in control of seeking out what they wanted as I was, perhaps even more so. It’s misogynistic to think that women are these timid little things.
I just think we need to realise that we’re all adults here, not eleven year olds. There’s obviously no mystery to sex, otherwise we wouldn’t be rapidly approaching seven billion people on this planet. So, if you’re into it, go for it. If you’re not, fine. I treat it like anything else. If I have a certain level of interest, or a particular kind of interest, in music, movies, books, sports, etc., I’m not going to play this silly little game of wishing and hoping for three months that I’ll get to do one of those activities, and tentatively at that.
Likewise with just getting a date. Enough with the bullshit games already. Make a bloody decision. Like I said, we’re not eleven year olds here. Some people might be, but are they the ones you want to date anyway?
I would seriously recommend reading a site like intellectualwhores.com and its forums. A surface reading of that might be very misogynistic, and about picking up chicks, etc. A deeper reading of it might be about not wasting your time by being indecisive or by hanging around indecisive people.