When did this happen? Why wasn’t I told about this?
Let me get this straight, you talked to both guys involved, and neither one of them welcomed your advice. But you still are obsessed with the idea of whether this chick is a “good girl”.
If you’re this worried about other people’s sex lives, experience tells me that your own sex life probably isn’t much to write home about.
I think you’re jealous. From the sound of it, she’s probably had more orgasms in a week than you’ve ever had in your life. 
[quote=“Lil’ Slugger”]
I think you’re jealous. From the sound of it, she’s probably had more orgasms in a week than you’ve ever had in your life. [/quote]
Hey, that’s a bit personal and nasty. Why do women who come to this site always have to be told they aren’t getting any because there’s something wrong with them?
[quote=“Buttercup”][quote=“Lil’ Slugger”]
I think you’re jealous. From the sound of it, she’s probably had more orgasms in a week than you’ve ever had in your life. [/quote]
Hey, that’s a bit personal and nasty. Why do women who come to this site always have to be told they aren’t getting any because there’s something wrong with them?[/quote]
: shrug : If it were a guy posting, I’d say the same thing. Matter of fact, I’m kind of jealous of Jane ('bout the sex life, not the guys, I’m straight). But one thing I’m not doing is worrying out loud about whether someone is a “good girl”, 'cause that would be a bit personal and nasty toward the girl in question. 
– especially as there’s a good chance that someone here knows one of the two guys in question, so the OP’s insistence on the issue amounts to rumor-mongoring. Which isn’t cool.
[quote=“Lil’ Slugger”][quote=“Buttercup”][quote=“Lil’ Slugger”]
I think you’re jealous. From the sound of it, she’s probably had more orgasms in a week than you’ve ever had in your life. [/quote]
Hey, that’s a bit personal and nasty. Why do women who come to this site always have to be told they aren’t getting any because there’s something wrong with them?[/quote]
: shrug : If it were a guy posting, I’d say the same thing. Matter of fact, I’m kind of jealous of Jane ('bout the sex life, not the guys, I’m straight). But one thing I’m not doing is worrying out loud about whether someone is a “good girl”, 'cause that would be a bit personal and nasty toward the girl in question. [/quote]
Yes, but she isn’t here. Still uncalled for.
Katling, be true to yourself and hold yourself to your standards. Those who dont play fair will be caught and will suffer for it down the road. Keep your own nose clean.
And also , probably good to keep out of other peoples private matters as much as possible.
Agree!
I thiink her life will catch up with her; eventually she’ll cause herself a lot of drama by her actions, it might even teach her something, because it seems like she lacks common morals. It’s just my 5c. 
[quote=“tommy525”]Katling, be true to yourself and hold yourself to your standards. Those who dont play fair will be caught and will suffer for it down the road. Keep your own nose clean.
And also , probably good to keep out of other peoples private matters as much as possible.[/quote]
Yes, you are nasty :no-no:
But i do have orgasms also, sometimes :discodance:
Kat
[quote=“Lil’ Slugger”]Let me get this straight, you talked to both guys involved, and neither one of them welcomed your advice. But you still are obsessed with the idea of whether this chick is a “good girl”.
If you’re this worried about other people’s sex lives, experience tells me that your own sex life probably isn’t much to write home about.
I think you’re jealous. From the sound of it, she’s probably had more orgasms in a week than you’ve ever had in your life. [/quote]
Last week or so: 
raindog.pixnet.net/blog/post/24029714
The mainland press and chatboards were raking her over the coals for it being very disgraceful behavior for a Chinese.
For John and Jane and the other guy, well, they’re all adults, kat; just expect to be the shoulder they come to cry on when one of them, likely John, ends up hurt.
If I were you katling, I’d council all the parties involved, behave like a good friend and when the truth leaks try to nail as many of them as you can before they all disappear from your life.
I’m surprised that 65% of respondents believe that it’s possible for a “good” girl to love to guys at the same time.
I wonder what the result would’ve been if the question was, “Is it possible for a ‘good’ guy to love two girls at the same time?”
And I wonder if we’re not confusing loving with lurvin’ :lick: :hubba: 
[quote]wonder what the result would’ve been if the question was, “Is it possible for a ‘good’ guy to love two girls at the same time?”
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Why wonder? Ask the question yourself and see what the result will be.
[quote=“grumpy”][quote]wonder what the result would’ve been if the question was, “Is it possible for a ‘good’ guy to love two girls at the same time?”
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Why wonder? Ask the question yourself and see what the result will be.[/quote]
Need I mention that either answer would result in 100% either way?
It is human nature to have a wondering eye. But a good person doesn’t act on it unless they are in an open relationship.
I do not think that anyone who actually loved someone could do this shvt to them. When you love someone, you take their emotions into consideration.
:bravo:
Totally agree! I think if you really love someone you never will date two guys. Otherwise you love one guy and use second one for something.
in this situation girl love Jack, but using John, because he will come in March. Then he promised to bring her to USA to learn english, and then after that moved to Taiwan to live togeather.
[quote=“SuchAFob”]It is human nature to have a wondering eye. But a good person doesn’t act on it unless they are in an open relationship.
I do not think that anyone who actually loved someone could do this shvt to them. When you love someone, you take their emotions into consideration.[/quote]
At the same time in the same place? This “good” girl could have a future in Japanese porn. Just needs to become familiar with innovative electronic devices and to perfect the squeaky moan. 
[quote]Do you think this is normal for “good” girl to love two guys [/quote] ?
Other variations on the same theme:
Can a normal girl be good? Can a good girl be normal?
It could be ‘good’ for the girl if she is ‘good’ at it.
Also define “good”, “normal” and " love".
[quote=“grumpy”][quote]wonder what the result would’ve been if the question was, “Is it possible for a ‘good’ guy to love two girls at the same time?”
[/quote]
Why wonder? Ask the question yourself and see what the result will be.[/quote]
I did not red the article before responding.
Katling shagging both of them (she is Jane yes?) is a no can do for sure but “love” in terms of having feelings, why not?
Well this Jane girl must have a smokin hot body, not like Zhang Zi Yi who honestly made me feel a little sick looking at her rib cage. And old John needs to strap a pair of balls on, cos God clearly forgot to fill his sac the day he stood in line.
Kateling, you seem to not understand how some people can be such users and other people can be such doormats. Jane is a self absorbed girl who enjoys having her ego massaged by two men. John is a walkover heading for a murder spree. You can show John what a numbskull he is being, and you can tell Jane that she is acting like a 2 dollar hooker, but if they see that and still don’t want to change, you have to walk away. What’s good for the goose, may not necessarily be good for the gander.
I see my male friends acting like whores sometimes, and I just have to walk away. It’s a waste of time bleeding for other peoples emotions.
Katlin/Jane,
Not that unusual I think. Been going on for thousands of years, the love triangle that often turns out to be a tragi-comedy. Under-pinned by philosophers too - Schopenhauer’s essays perhaps? I forget. Point is that some females like to have a second string. Their urge or instinct to ensure the continuation of the species is particularly strong.