It is actually passive aggressive if you understand Chinese well. It is a way of saying she is not suitable for this company and you guys are not suitable for me as well.
If a Taiwanese girl wrote me a letter it would have to be in English maybe that’s why I never got one
Beware the letter writers. They mean to marry you
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Tommy’s three strike rule…… I make three attempts then give up ….land somewhere else
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Trust your instincts. If you feel she is being passive aggressive over a small thing like this, then imagine walking on eggshells during a relationship with her.
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To Taiwanese girls a Yes could mean No or Maybe
A No could mean Maybe or Yes
A Maybe could mean Yes or No
You have to read her body language
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Hence your anxiety on 6.20
Better up
Your game. Time to move from letter writing to sending emails
Or better a text
‘Hey you leavin soon wanna let it hang out? I mean wanna hang out ‘
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Hmmm, could be that she just didn’t enjoy the job, hours, or work environment. Not necessarily about you.
Did you get her contact details?
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How cute is she?
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Must be pretty cute for him to work up so much steam
Just go ride the MRT at least two hotties per car
And on certain stops may be more
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Ok yES probably means Maybe
No probably means Maybe
Maybe probably means YES
Never sure with these Taiwanese ladies
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Taiwanese girls usually do not confess to Taiwanese guys. I can’t say that about foreign guys because I’d bet Taiwanese women act very differently because the tacit social norm as expected for a TW-TW couple might not necessarily hold.
I have not received any confession from TW girls since middle school. My experiences with TW ladies, those who I dated, were that they’re sweet and wonderful, most of them are very sincere, polite and pro-active especially during the initial stage. I am a Taiwanese man, married.
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A guy at my work got a letter from another teacher once. She was crazy. She was hot but she literally thought every guy in the world was in love with her.
She told me story after story about how guys would fall at her feet. One I can remember was that on a flight from America to Taiwan the person next to her had dumped his wife and was sleeping on her lap by the end of the flight. The wife was sitting in the next seat over. This might have been in her head.
One day I was busily marking some homework. Her good looks had worn off after the tenth story and I was behind on my work. I kept marking and didn’t give her enough attention. She proceeded to tell everyone that I was in love with her and my girlfriend had forbidden me from talking to her. Ha ha.
Well another guy who didn’t give her too much attention got the letter. He said it was nuts. Accusing him of being in love with her and confessing her love.
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crikey. She sounds like genuine bunny-boiler material.
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I got rejected by a coworker once. We were always talking and being nice before. After, she was always angry at me. Presumably, because I didn’t chase her.
Went on a date. Got to see her bitchy side. She complained about how our manager was unfair to her etc. She said that, with her degree, she’ll be able to get a job that suits her “style”.
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Her style also includes wearing masks incorrectly such that they barely cover her nose.
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there’s another pretty girl who works in a company right next to ours. She’s on her phone and avoids eye contact when she walks past me. Damn it…
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maybe she doesn’t like the way you wear your mask?
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I always wear my mask correctly.