Ah, the age-old age issue…let’s see…as far as I can tell…age is a state of mind (until you reach the point where your bodily functions don’t function anymore) and is a superficial, chronological number that superficial people impose as a critieria for relationships. Now granted anything below a certain level is illegal in most countries (not Saudi where you can have sex with any child you manage to marry!) but the issue should be maturity rather than this number. As a 17-year-old boy I was going on about 40 mentally…unfortunately as a 46-year-old man, I am going on about 15 mentally. Hell of a problem.
So the issue is not if she is older, or if she is younger, it is whether you two get along mentally - do you like the same things? is the notorious sex drive at the same level? are your goals the same? This is what is most important.
And as Mr. He, pointed out, if she tells you age is a problem then obviously she isn’t interested.
And you don’t have to travel to have more than one man…just creative.
[quote=“bionic ninja”]
The only problem with dating older girls is that they will sometimes believe those few extra years give them the right to treat you like an inmature kid. Of course, that could be said about most women…[/quote]
Well, if they do that DON’T marry them whatever you do… Trust me on that one, i speak from experieice.