Has anyone ever done a homestay for a long period of time? I have been here for about a month staying with a Taiwanese family and they always have dinner at home and whenver I bring up the fact that I’m not going out to dinner, I feel that it is an object of contention.
Of course after I tell them I’m not coming home for dinner, they mumble something in Chinese and don’t say it to my face and I never really quite understand, but I sincerely feel like I can understand some undertone of anger, annoyance, or whatever.
I don’t want to make them upset at the same time that I just would like to go out to dinner sometimes.
Any advice?