[quote=“Notsu”][quote=“tpy”]The best way to say that is
"Why do Human like to cheat "
I think that’s just as natural as breathing.[/quote]
I don’t think cheating is all that natural anyways.
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I mean, you don’t need to learn and you know how.
And once the one is your type, it would be difficult to say now, therefore, cheating comes.
I have never cheated. And I have never been tempted to. I have thought about leaving someone for someone, but never have I actually considered cheating.
I don’t think it is natural for everyone. I think for somme it is. And for some it is not.
I also think it has to do with how the sexual drive is. Some people get physically stimulated, some people get mentally stimulated, some emotionally, … i think this helps control whether or not one is the cheating type.
I can’t imagine anyone even WANTING to cheat on their SO. I mean, if so, what’s the point of having an SO? Each time I’ve had a girlfriend, I haven’t been able to thing of or desire anyone but them. I sure feel the same way now. I can’t imagine that changing, ever.
I can’ t imagine that one claims he never cheats.I have to confess I cheat sometimes…not in a sexual way though 
[quote=“SuchAFob”]I have never cheated. And I have never been tempted to. I have thought about leaving someone for someone, but never have I actually considered cheating.
I don’t think it is natural for everyone. I think for somme it is. And for some it is not.
I also think it has to do with how the sexual drive is. Some people get physically stimulated, some people get mentally stimulated, some emotionally, … I think this helps control whether or not one is the cheating type.[/quote]
I should have more your kind friends. Therefore, i could believe in relationship.
naturally we are not monogamic… so “cheating” is not applyable… as any person with 2 inches of intelligence will tell you - it is only a matter of genes… no more no less… if we were monogamic… why should sex be so good? why do we have that physical attraction thing anyway? Because we are sexual hunters and only culture makes us behave in a diferent way…
Look at history and know why you behave like you do
Look at biology and know why we never want to beahve like that
Some might agree with the biological/anthropological ‘data’ that our species is not ‘wired’ to be monogamous. However, there’s also something called ‘will’ or ‘choice’ to consider: every person has the ability to choose his/her actions. We all have the potential to be saints, and the same to be murderous villains. Sure, there are many factors involved in shaping one’s moral character, but in the end it comes down to one’s choice in being faithful or not.
Some people are not ready for such serious commitments as marriage and other responsibilities, for whatever reasons. But that’s a whole other discussion.
[quote=“Mianbao”]Some might agree with the biological/anthropological ‘data’ that our species is not ‘wired’ to be monogamous. However, there’s also something called ‘will’ or ‘choice’ to consider: every person has the ability to choose his/her actions. We all have the potential to be saints, and the same to be murderous villains. Sure, there are many factors involved in shaping one’s moral character, but in the end it comes down to one’s choice in being faithful or not.
Some people are not ready for such serious commitments as marriage and other responsibilities, for whatever reasons. But that’s a whole other discussion.[/quote]
well put. Mostly (with cheating and just about everything else) it comes down to the choices you make. And when considering cheating, then usually it’s a sign that somethings wrong.
At least we like to think we do (have will and the ability to make choices, but that’s a whole other discussion too).
I would think that if someone is cheating on you, it’s obvious. I mean, isn’t it obvious if there is sincere commitment and trust in a relationsip? And if it’s not there, then something is not right and the relationship is in trouble, either way.
The worst thing to do is start following your SO or snooping through his or her personal stuff. You might find something better left alone. I read an advice article about this girl who was staying at her new boyfriend’s house while he went out for beer, and she was with her friend. Anyway, they start snooping through his closet and find some hardcore porn videos and she gets disgusted and decides to leave him right there and then, before he gets back from the beer run.
If you ask me that’s childish. What did she expect? Some self-help videos? Maybe they weren’t even his 
. But the point is, if someone is not totally into you and only you, it’s not rocket science to figure it out.
How about giving her a pair of Forget me not panties with built in GPS transmitter to keep an eye on her movements ? Not sure if they raise the alarm if removed…
Well personally I think my bf is cheating on me. But that might be because I don’t trust him enough and also he made a few suspicious statements. But I figure, if I can’t trust him, then what’s the point of being with him? Isn’t there a saying “Not guilty until proven”. Maybe that’s the way to go, at least that’s what I am doing now. Truth though I still poke around now and then.
What is the norm?
Is not cheating normal?
Or is cheating normal?
Based on my observations the world is divided into those that cheat and those who tell
Has anyone mentioned the option of signing your name on the parts that boys should not wash quickly.
Has anyone mentioned the option of signing your name on the parts that boys should not wash quickly.[/quote]
Eww… I don’t want to touch that!!!
[quote=“SuchAFob”]1) No. They lived in Mexico. Almost as bad.
2) No. She was nowhere near sane. I love my cousin (even if only because we share blood) but the chick is LoCo!!! And I am pretty sure that he never cheated on her. He left her cuz she accused him of it EVERY DAY.[/quote]
She might have been nuts and her actions seem to support the theory, but in Mexico, infidelity rates are ridiculously high. I guess at least there is a context. Kinda.
I always the last one to know my bf cheated…
Trust him too much and got hurt at last…haha
[quote=“igfofjc”]I always the last one to know my bf cheated…
Trust him too much and got hurt at last…haha[/quote]
Your meant to be the last to know… thats the way it goes… 
[quote=“igfofjc”]I always the last one to know my bf cheated…
Trust him too much and got hurt at last…haha[/quote]
Same thing with me as well. You trust them too much and get hurt, that’s what happened with my last bf, hence I don’t know if I can trust the current one at all. 
[quote=“Sweetie”][quote=“igfofjc”]I always the last one to know my bf cheated…
Trust him too much and got hurt at last…haha[/quote]
Same thing with me as well. You trust them too much and get hurt, that’s what happened with my last bf, hence I don’t know if I can trust the current one at all. 
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I would say jealousy/distrust are signs of insecurity and if you are insecure, then maybe you’re just not up for a relationship now. 