Some of my friends they never had boyfriends …
They are about 24 or 25 now, is it weired?
How do men think when they heard about it?
Do they think these girls are cheating?
It’s quite common in Taiwan so wouldn’t surprise me.
I still think it’s a bit odd, but most of my friends who have taiwanese boyfriends would probably suggest being permanently single is a better choice.
Lots off my GF friends have newer had BF and I do not disrespect them for that.
I would be more worried if they had sexual realationship since they where 12-13 like I see at home.
It’s good to be mature befour you strat playing with the oposite sex.
Stian wrote [quote]How do men think when they heard about it? [/quote]
Conflicting thoughts:
charity “Mmm, I could break this girl in, and give her a positive and educational training session.”
sleaze “slobber, mmm, virgin meat”
fear “Oh God, all those pent up emotions; she would probably turn into a psycho xiaojie”
Conflicting thoughts:
charity “Mmm, I could break this girl in, and give here a positive and educational training session.”
sleaze “slobber, mmm, virgin meat”
fear “Oh God, all those pent up emotions; she would probably turn into a psycho xiaojie”[/quote]
reality"Man, she still lives with her parents and has to be home by midnight!" 
It means the sex is most likely going to be crap.
I had a girlfriend like that before, I was her first boyfriend, and she was a virgin when we met. It wasn’t a pleasant experience. A girl that age with no experience is most likely to have some immaturity issues.
I’d like to meet a girl who hasn’t had a bunch of asshole boyfriends for once so I don’t have to continually deal with her issues regarding this. I’m not sure about the virgin thing, though.
Jeeeeeeeezuz! What a bunch of wussies. Leave the virgins to the real men, you lot don’t deserve them.
To the OP, it doesn’t surprise me in the least, not after seeing how teenagers revile the opposite sex. Boys on one side of the class, girls on the other. No mixing at all. What the Hell is up with that? When I was in my teens, I never passed up an opportunity to be near a girl. I still don’t.
[quote=“seine”]Some of my friends they never had boyfriends …
They are about 24 or 25 now, is it weired?
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I don’t think it’s weird at all. I know a fair number of girls who hadn’t had a serious bf (meaning sexual relationship) by that age. Maybe it’s just Tainan, which is quite conservative and maybe it’s the fact that most of them were in med school back then, so too busy for boyfriends anyway.
I wouldn’t look down on them. They were what you would call “good girls”, who eventually found Mr. Right and got married. I would rather have one of those girls, than a girl with tons baggage due to previous abusive, cheating etc. boyfriends.
I don’t date virgins period. I wouldn’t think it’s weird that a girl is still a virgin at 25 though.
If I was still single, I would knowingly date an adult virgin. Might be kind of interesting. There’s some work to do, but it might be worth it.
I like your answer, Mer!!!
My male friends told me so as well…i guess men are quite similar animal. 
I think why these girls don’t have bf until now is not only the problem in school, but some men enjoy having relations we call “曖昧” in chinese!!
Also, citizen K’s point is fair: reality"Man, she still lives with her parents and has to be home by midnight!"
When I studied in UK and told my friends or classmates about this, they couldn’t believe it!
Some people think maybe these girls are just late blossom or too picky. = =
It is also a problem when we have family gatherings; relatives are very likely to ask this ‘sensitive’ question in front of everyone!!!
Sigh…
I’ve met many thirty plus virgins here. Why, oh why, girls?
You guys are SOOOOOOOOOO lame! First of all, the OP didn’t mention anything about virgins in his/her post. But to the OP, that IS a guy thing - always thinking someone means SEX when they bring up relationships between men and women. Nothing wrong with a woman who has never had a boyfriend before the age of 24 yrs when that is the norm for the culture one comes from as it seems to be in Taiwan. In the West (the U.S. specifically 'cause that’s the culture I’m from), it would be unusual for a woman not to have had a boyfriend or to at least have been on a date by the time she was 24 years old. Folks in the U.S. might wonder what is wrong with a 24 yr old woman - but what if she’s a lesbian? Then, that would not be unusual at all. What if she’s a world class athlete? Maybe she has been totally focused on her sport, and hasn’t had the time or inclination to check out the opposite sex (because parents and coaches have not allowed it, perhaps?). It really kind of depends on the context, I think.
I know a woman who was 28 years old when she lost her virginity. I would not categorize her as a bore in bed at all - quite the opposite, in fact. Again, it depends on the individual - the culture one comes from can have an equally significant impact as well. I get the impression that in Taiwanese/Chinese culture, a woman who is too eager and who enjoys sex too much is not looked upon kindly (shit, that’s true in most cultures - that’s where we get the “she’s the kind of girl you want to date, but not the kind of girl you’d take home to mother” bullshit).
Bodo
So to condense what you’re saying Bodo, she could be a very athletic, lesbian 24-year old virgin looking for lurrve?
Superb!
HG
These elderly virgins are a nightmare. If you’re not shagging, drinking, and listening to music in your teens there’s something wrong. As Quentin said, there will be “maturity issues”. The “Subtract 10” rule comes into play.
a female friend who lived with her family in Mioli (where you call “conservative”) was very purprised I (and other friends) started dating when we were in senior high. I kept asking if she had a boyfriend. she always said no. in the year we were 21, she called me one day and asked me to be her bridesmaid…she was pregnant! now she is a mother of three children
another female friend told me she had lived with her ex for a year but they never had sex…they slept in the same bed. she said she had to beg him not to force her.she is 25 by the way…hmm…I myself have a little doubt with this.
[quote=“sugar cane”]another female friend told me she had lived with her ex for a year but they never had sex…they slept in the same bed. she said she had to beg him not to force her.she is 25 by the way…hmm…I myself have a little doubt with this.[/quote]Sugar Cane -
I don’t know about you & others, but this is cruel & unusual punishment.
This poor, stupid guy must have a terrible case of the ‘nervous twitches & shakes’ after suffering thru this kind of mental and physical abuse.
She’s a sicko for starting and continuing this situation and he’s a poor dumb fool for staying in it.
At hear work my GF say that we sleep in seperate roms.
Since I’m a forigner hear co-workers don’t belive it and are teasing hear about us sneaking in to eatch others bed roms after dark.
She has no problems with hear friends and famely knowing.
We meet when she was 24 and she was a virgin and I did/do not have a problem with that.
Hell how do men feel if a 35 year old woman never had a BF? 24 is just ‘saving’ one’s self for the ‘right’ person, but when you get into your 30s that’s a whole nuther ball game. 