More advice: DO NOT read this thread, with all these losers bitching and moaning (APART FROM THIS BIT, OBVIOUSLY)
Instead, head on over to the parallel thread:-
where you’ll learn, from an entirely different bunch of people, that its a stress-free paradise, and if you stick around long enough (and you aren’t a total loser) riches will fall into your lap like ripe mangoes off a tree, as they have for them.