How to find adult friends in Taipei?

Quote: “How to find adult friends in Taipei?”

Jeesh. What sort of other “friends” are there? :astonished:

…friends.forumosa is not a working service (I get 404 page with every second access), is there any other online forum where a 40 yrs businessman, smart & educated & fit, could try to hook up with nice & smart woman in Taipei before his visits?

I’m not looking for commercial sex but nice evenings (dinners & stuff) which could of course lead to nice sex afterwards… Where to go, and what do Taiwanese woman like?

[quote=“visiting_taipei”]…friends.forumosa is not a working service (I get 404 page with every second access), is there any other online forum where a 40 yrs businessman, smart & educated & fit, could try to hook up with nice & smart woman in Taipei before his visits?

I’m not looking for commercial sex but nice evenings (dinners & stuff) which could of course lead to nice sex afterwards… Where to go, and what do Taiwanese woman like?[/quote]

drop the 4K for a massage you cheap bastard… :wink:

oh wait, 40 something businessman… Go to Carnegie’s on Wed, Fri, Sat, and wear something that makes it look like you are important and just got off work.

So you’re looking for an escort service? I haven’t looked for ages, but the back page of the China Post used to be covered with small ads for escort girls. Prices are reasonable, I’ve heard, but you need to pay extra for the happy ending.

You have to do the Bob the Builder and lay the groundwork. Get on a social network, and in the parlance of the POAs, fill your hopper.

Basically, you need to have as many potentials as you can reasonably handle (and here I’m talking about the time required to do the groundwork and then maintenance before setting up a date and coming over here). Spend your time doing the groundwork, and then before you come here, set up the dates. It’s a numbers game.

When I was in Moscow, I met several guys your age who were doing this. They literally had two weeks’ worth of lunch and dinner dates (sometimes three dates per day, though personally, I think the lunch date is a much poorer prospect than anything after dark) set up before they arrived. The trick is not to come here and then look for dates. The trick is to come here with dates to go on because then you’ll already be one step closer to your ultimate goal with all of them, which vastly increases your chances of some action. It is indeed a numbers game. If you need to hit on X number of women, for X amount of time, with X percentage success of setting up dates, then you want to do that before you come here because you have a much larger amount of time before you get here than once you get here. Preparation/groundwork is key.

Going out to “pick up” is probably also a bit of a one shot affair since if it doesn’t work with one girl, other girls will notice (or at least figure you bombed out since you’d just spent time talking to some other girl and are now trying to talk to them). Unless you’re good or the market is easy, it’s possibly a huge waste of time.

How often will you visit Taiwan and for how long? The answer to that should help shape your strategy.

If you plan to visit for just a couple of days every few months, it is easier and more efficient to pay for it. You will almost certainly be approached in your hotel lobby. Explain your requirements carefully: say you “want talking all night”, otherwise dinner could be a bit boring and she will be off as soon as you’ve popped. If you want someone to attend to your needs for a slightly longer visit, I understand that you can “charter” for periods as short as one week, although I have not done this.

If you go to the clubs, it is fun but a bit of a lottery, and you might go back to the hotel empty handed.

When I first visited, I just asked the people I was seeing if they could recommend a guide/translator. They did. If one is well behaved, non-threatening and respectful, I have found the Taiwanese (generally) to be very understanding and accommodating. You need luck too of course, otherwise it is back to plan A above. I was lucky initially, but she dumped me on a subsequent visit. By then, I had seen other fish to fry. Good luck.

[quote=“GuyInTaiwan”]You have to do the Bob the Builder and lay the groundwork. Get on a social network, and in the parlance of the POAs, fill your hopper.

Basically, you need to have as many potentials as you can reasonably handle (and here I’m talking about the time required to do the groundwork and then maintenance before setting up a date and coming over here). Spend your time doing the groundwork, and then before you come here, set up the dates. It’s a numbers game.

When I was in Moscow, I met several guys your age who were doing this. They literally had two weeks’ worth of lunch and dinner dates (sometimes three dates per day, though personally, I think the lunch date is a much poorer prospect than anything after dark) set up before they arrived. The trick is not to come here and then look for dates. The trick is to come here with dates to go on because then you’ll already be one step closer to your ultimate goal with all of them, which vastly increases your chances of some action. It is indeed a numbers game. If you need to hit on X number of women, for X amount of time, with X percentage success of setting up dates, then you want to do that before you come here because you have a much larger amount of time before you get here than once you get here. Preparation/groundwork is key.

Going out to “pick up” is probably also a bit of a one shot affair since if it doesn’t work with one girl, other girls will notice (or at least figure you bombed out since you’d just spent time talking to some other girl and are now trying to talk to them). Unless you’re good or the market is easy, it’s possibly a huge waste of time.[/quote]

That’s one of the best advice on this page. And you don’t have to be 40 to do that.

I used to have “plans” on nights out. Usually 1 and 2, preferably not in the same group of friends (my friends do not judge much, but it can be messy sometime). And then there was “emergency plan”, which was the go to girl after 1:30am.
I had both chatted and met them up beforehand (I don’t sleep with somebody I just met).
I would normally make sure to establish contact with both 1 and 2 early in the evening, see both for a little while, make sure to say hello to emergency plan, go where the feeling of that evening carried me between 1 or 2, and fall back on the other if it didn’t work out. In the event that none of them yielded anything interesting, and if I was still in the mood I would approach “emergency plan”.

Obviously, you need to overbook your evening to make sure that there will be some action. It gives great results but it works sometime too well, since I once spent an evening where 5 different “plans”. Best scenario in that case is not to concentrate or try to do anything with any of them, but rather to spend a little while with each of them to further your goals. It’s a bit frustrating, but the next days can be quite fun.

Acting a bit like I was “available but expensive”, having friends with good social status (some of them could be David :smiley: ), and being properly dressed made them all quite receptive.
2:30am was the limit at which to leave if things were not interesting enough. Don’t stay beyond unless you got something good hooked. There really is a limit in Taipei where most interesting and pretty girls leave around 2-2:30.

Eeew! I don’t understand boys!

You trolling me, laddie? :laughing:

I have a date set for next weekend with a local and I’m wondering if anyone knows of a good bar for a date. I’ve been to many expat bars in Taiwan, but none of them seem suitable for a date.

I want a place to relax, have a couple drinks, and see where the night takes us.

Please don’t recommend FamilyMart. :pray:

Ah, but in Tainan that’s when the bar girls get off work and come round to see what’s cooking. That was always my “emergency plan”. Worked well for me. Might be different in Taipei, though. And I knew lots of bar girls through friends, etc…

Social networking. Gotta love it. :thumbsup:

This thread is just . . . just shocking! What nasty creatures boys are.

erm there is a site called adult friend finder that should be right up the OPs street.

I love the way that everyone assumes a new guy in town will just “get lucky”. Lets dispel some myths.

I used to travel to Taiwan a lot on business before I lived there and was NEVER approached in a lobby. I have NEVER gotten lucky in Tokyo and spent a LOT of time there. Most expats know Carnegies - its legendary and for a reason but you are unlikely to “get lucky” every time you visit - going on a Wednesday definitely increases your chances.

IMHO the best advice in the thread so far is to join some kind of dating service and set up some dates. There is a very real chance that you will have sex - and you may even end up liking someone! Its not hard to get laid in Taiwan and the rules are more or less the same with a couple of exceptions - language can be a real barrier - you are likely to have someone fall in love with you and behave strangely even after a very short affair (search for psycho xiaojie) and prostitution is not open in the way it is in other Asian markets.

Here’s a great site for that:

partnersinthetruth.com

Trust me–soon you’ll be living in God’s paradise on earth.

[quote=“Edgar Allen”]erm there is a site called adult friend finder that should be right up the OPs street.
.[/quote]

And that response should been enough, to follow Housecat’s reply.
If he is a man of the world, he should not look here but on the above site (i was told :blush: ).

Women ! Phah. If we didnt need em, we wouldnt need em . :smiley:

How you doin’? {emoticon for lasciviously raised eyebrows}

And they find it hard to get laid, for some reason. T’internet, eh? What ever happened to going to scuzzy bars and raising an eyebrow at the slutty boys?

There’s a reason for that, Edgar. :laughing:
How DOES one translate: “AAAARGH! RUN! Girls! RUN! Its the walking gargoyle!” into Chinese and Japanese?

But, but …? Didn’t you once have relations with a lady, sandman?