I’m going to have to agree with Mr Burton there. I know some people don’t even realize they are having a foreigner fetish. I have had a few guys tell me they thought I was super cool because I (insert thing that I don’t do that they assume I do because I am white and all white girls do this). I have also had guys that thought they were into me for reasons other than my jintoufa tell me that they lubbed me which I found to be an impossibility because they were still refusing to accept that their assumptions about who I must be based on being a white girl were not accurate to who I am as an individual. Thus experience has taught me that people who emphasize the foreignness of their love interest usually only have a love interest because of the largeness of their nose.
The fact that you are asking the question in the first place is giving you the answer
Make him show you the big suppurating wart on his scrotum. If you’re still into him after that, it’s love.
I tend to think that crush is “love at first sight”, that you’re drawn to that person’s physical appearance or the way he/she carries herself. Love is when you get to know that person’s personality more, and are drawn to that person even more.
This was why my crush for guys back in high school didn’t last long, because they were all jerks after I got to know them better… hah.
I don’t know. I think I do believe in love at first sight. The fist time I saw the love of my life, he was standing waiting for my best friend with my favorite flower, which he’d picked for her. They were dating, but the moment I saw him, I thought we were ment for eachother. They broke up, we all kept hanging out. We dated other people, but were always more attracted to eachother, on all levels. Then, about three years later, we finally got together. I’d always known it would be wonderful, and it was. And looking back on this now, I think we never got together before that because we both know how real it was between us and were a little afraid of the fact that we couldn’t stay together. We knew we couldn’t marry, and we didn’t. But we both regret it.
Theres also the feeling that you love someone but you know you cant be a good couple. I had a GF who was like the best friend I ever had and very sexy too. But in the end it was like we ended up not feeling as romantic with each other because- i don’t know- maybe we were TOO comfortable? Its a mystery. Anyways we loved each other but just couldn’t get along as a couple anymore. Weird.