I work at a buxiban, and I will not do it again

More dirty laundry? Why not?
I’m leaving my current place and seeking greener pastures. I’ve given the new faces notice today.

The matter boils down to these issues:

The previous owner sold some dupes a rotten egg. The place had a “generation gap” of sorts, and I taught the advanced, older elementary students. The bulk of them moved to junior high, but the owners conveniently left out that detail during the sale.

Catching wind of this, the new manager first wanted to renegotiate my salary for the advanced class (originally two classes) because that class would have fewer students, to which I responded that it was their responsibility to recruit students (read: not my problem), that I could just leave and find work for more money closer to my new home (living in Taipei, working in Sanchong [formerly residing there]), and that I had a contract with the company, thus setting my pay rate in legal concrete. They put on an angry face. I didn’t budge. They submitted.

Of the two advanced students that remained, one’s mother was a real bitch about the time when her son got home to eat dinner. He couldn’t eat dinner at 7:00. He couldn’t eat dinner at 5:30. He had to eat it at 6:00PM on the dot! Last semester’s schedule allowed for this, but they changed the timing for some reason, so she pulled her kid.

The final kid, poor thing, told me that if they canceled my class there, that his dad would send him to Kid Castle, a place which he described as “the worst kind of hell.” I was not shocked to hear it.

They then bent to one parent’s want for an open door policy for my class, which basically meant that she wanted her kid to sit in the class, but have no responsibilities to turn in work, take tests, etc. This place obviously isn’t a university, and kids don’t have the self-control to quietly audit courses. As one would expect from a child’s knowing such things, the kid was a pain in the ass. I had to turn to the boss and explain the kind of catastrophe that she’s inviting into a classroom setting if she sets special exceptions for one kid. Just as she did in her first class (prior to creating this auditing policy), she bothered or distracted other students who were focused, didn’t show me any respect when I reprimanded her, and then told me, “I no homework. Talk Manager X.” I did – and abracadabra – she now has homework.

It was worse for my Taiwanese, former co-teacher. The former owner was making her teach the kindergarten classes without a teaching contract (which implies more pay), and then they were going to stop covering her labor insurance. She walked out early.

That said, they’re looking for one person (because they can only sponsor one more ARC) to work broken hours (9 per week, with a one-hour gap between classes) at a branch at 500NT (not USD) per hour to start. Their outdated advertisement is here: esldewey.com.tw/jobdetail.ph … l_ID=13346 I told them that they don’t have enough hours at their place to offer another ARC, so their strategy had better be to split the schedule and look for people who are willing to drop in for an extra few hours a week during most buxiban workers’ key working hours. All bets are off with regard to what they actually do.

I’m not sure what the market is like there, but I’d run as fast as I could, too. It’s amazing what some of these ridiculous bosses think they can get away with. I realize that not all buxiban teachers are the cream of the crop, but some of us do a pretty damned good job, and given the right conditions, will be loyal and keep bringing in students (and retaining them) for a long time. Any boss who tries to use guilt to avoid talking about pay, or who doesn’t pay on time, is not worth working for, IMHO. And to demand that the OP’s wife not see the contract. WTF?! That’s a red flag and a half; anyone not willing to give a person a day or so to think things over is not worth working for. Again, just my :2cents: .

Thank you for all of the replies. I am glad to hear that others have the same opinion and this isn’t simply a case of “you don’t understand Taiwanese culture”. Yesterday it was also mentioned that I should offer an apology for my indiscrepancies however I hope that this can just be dropped and all forgotten about. We will wait and see :bow:

[quote=“superking”][quote=“Milkybar_Kid”]Had to post this in here.

Today I asked the bosses wife if she remembered that I would be getting paid in cash this month as my bank account has not been set-up yet. She then fobbed me off.

Later she dispatched the head foreign teacher to give me a talking to about how it is disrespectful to ask a boss about ones pay and salary. The conversation went along the lines of “The boss will give it to you when she is well and ready thank you, minions shouldn’t be so disrespectful as to ask”.

I was then asked if I would dare to ask my Taiwanese father in law when I was receiving my chinese New year red envelope as if that situation is in anyway compareable to the above. :eh:

Finally after explaining that I always try to be straight up with money I was reminded about the highly professional nature of the Buxiban and told to go and make a copy of my own payslip so I could return the one that they gave me to the office.

:raspberry:[/quote]

On top of the many bad things which have happened to you in the past 2 or 3 years (yeah, I am pretty conversant in the story that is MBK) I have to be the one to tell you that your boss is a fucking nasty cunt who is lying to you. Essentially she doesn’t have the cash to pay you. So when you mentioned to her a prior conversation, which she forgot, she went into panic mode. First order of business is to make you feel like a cunt. Hence the dressing down. This is a smokescreen to stop you from remembering that she owes you money. The red envelope question was then to find out just how rough you are going to get it WHEN she shafts you a few days from now. “Oh, I no have money to pay you, but you OK, you got red envelope.” She sees you as a mug she can walk on in her quest to become rich. Sorry mate. It’s not particularly a Taiwan problem, most people see the peons as crushable worms. but it is a problem. Your boss, based on my experiences, is fucking with you left right and centre.[/quote]

Thanks for this post. It really picked me up. However in the end I got my salary without any issues.

For once I am glad to be wrong! Happy spending. :smiley: