[quote=“wolf_reinhold”]I think, Monkey-boy, that this is the Western knee-jerk reaction – ‘treat with chemicals.’
Also, the topic here is being lonely, or at least that is the title that the author selected. Is loneliness akin to clinical depression?
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Dear Resident Segue Naysayers:
You want to be exacting in your analysis of the language the poster used? Fine:
The guy says he’s so lonely he wants to cry. Unless English usage has changed dramatically in recent months, this indicates a degree of loneliness beyond simply wishing for the company of others.
The guy has posted before (Worried/Existential Issues), indicating that he is constantly worried about basic life issues, with hints that he wonders whether life is worth living (part of the definition of existential issues).
He has also posted on tealit several times (as TaiWill), describing his battles with depression.
I, for one, did not prescribe anything. I suggested that he consider the possibility that he is clinically depressed, and that he seek the help of a physician to diagnose his problem, which is very obviously more than simple loneliness. I shared my experience with family members who have chemical imbalances and who, in the past, were often clinically depressed and found life impossible, until they started taking a drug that regulates their emotions. Have you ever dealt with a close family member who is clinically depressed? I have. Others have. That at least qualifies us to make suggestions.
Do I think it is a good idea to take drugs for any ailment? No. I think holistic approaches to health are far superior. I practice them myself. But I also know that certain relatives of mine, no matter how healthy their lifestyles, are ineffective as human beings, and in fact miserable to be around, unless they are taking some kind of depression medication. This guy sounds an awful lot like clinically depressed people I have dealt with in the past. Others on the boards recognized that same thing.