[quote=“B.B.”]Did I misinterpret your post? I don’t know, yours sounded aggressive and hostile to me as soon as I read it. Besides, there are some “strange” male laowei over there, and you asked a very rude and stupid question at the end of your post. How would I know if you were not picking on me? I would be willing to apologize if I did misunderstand your words.
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Well, B.B., let me start by refreshing your memory on an exchange of posts between you and Rascal in a thread entitled “Other than bars, where do lonely (Western) hearts go to meet?” that appeared on this forum a couple or so months ago.
Rascal wrote:
Posted: Thu Aug 29, 2002 1:35 pm
Maybe at this point we should arrange a meeting ourselves!?
Any suggestions where, when and how to - if you are interested that is!?
With “where” I mean what kind of place, not a name (not yet).
To which B.B. replied:
Posted: Thu Aug 29, 2002 8:29 pm
Wow, thank you. But I’m Taiwanese. I join this thread because I wonder too about the “where can two lonely hearts meet?” question, not because I’m a foreigner looking for another foreigner. So if you don’t mind meeting or going out with a local girl, then I would say “why not?”
But I’m ill at ease to set up personal meeting with somebody PUBLICLY. So if you are still interested, please send me private message for this. Well, just talking, and then meeting, or going out, not too serious or too fast YET, right?!!!
B.B., if you post messages like that on an open forum, you can hardly take umbrage when other people refer to it or ask you about it. And if someone does make a friendly and pleasant inquiry about it, and you respond by flinging words like “rude” and “stupid” at the inquirer, you are gravely in breach of the basic universal standards of civility. I would never address an impolite remark to another person, either to his face or on-line, and I take offence when such remarks are addressed to me – especially when they are totally unwarranted by anything I have said or done. So, if you have sufficiently understood what I have written here, you certainly should deliver a prompt apology, and then I will be glad to forget all about it and resume a dialogue with you in an appropriate manner.