[quote=“ran the man”]I would say that Chinese sayings are their Bible. they look at the world thru those sayings. some of the sayings are misquoted without knowledge of where they came from or who said them, and taken as “gospel”. example:
“ren bu dz sz, tien dzu di mien”
“if people are not selfish, heaven would bow in shame”
if Chinese culture is a religion, it is an evil religion that allows for the worst in human behaviour as long as the basic tenants are kept, mainly pious devotion to dead ancestors and parents. nothing is said about cheating or lying. [/quote]
I suspect that proverb means Heaven wants the people prosper more than anything else. Maybe an ancient way of supporting “enlightened self-interest”? 
And you’re wrong that lying and cheating are acceptable aspects of Chinese beliefs and culture. Even without reading anything about Chinese philosophy, common sense should tell you that. It would be impossible for any society, much less a civilization dating back to ancient times, to maintain social unity if lying and cheating were considered acceptable behavior. I am no Confucian scholar, but in my Chinese history classes I had the opportunity to read parts of the Analects (in English), and Confucius spoke repeatedly about the importance of virtue, honor, and integrity. He was born during a period in China’s history when it was divided into dozens of states, frequently at war with one another. Confucius apparently perceived the primary cause for these divisions as being a lack of virtue among the Chinese elite. He thought academics had become arrogant yes-men, eager to appease whatever ruler happened to be in power at any given time, and were not constantly striving to improve themselves as Confucius believed the ancients had done. Well, over the centuries Confucian philosophy became state doctrine and one of the pillars of Chinese thought. And I’m pretty sure centuries of Confucian based education and rule by Confucian scholars speaks more to the Chinese peoples value of virtue than one seemingly contradictory proverb. 
All great civilizations have considered themselves superior. One of the things I find so interesting about Chinese culture is that while they are no exception to this rule, their feeling of superiority was not really race-based. In many cases the Han Chinese did not so much as displace other cultures as other cultures were attracted to the beauty and order of the Han, and eventually Sinified. Even the Khitan and Jurchen invaders adopted many Chinese customs during their rule of north China in the Song period. When the Mongols conquered the Jurchens and then all of China, they took pains to make sure the same thing wouldn’t happen to them. They instituted a strict social hierarchy, elevating all non-Han people above the Hans, limited the number of Han advisors at court, decreed that only Mongolian could be spoken at court, etc. The allure of Chinese culture was strong and the Mongols did whatever they could to resist it. The colonization and eventual Sinification of southwestern China during the Ming dynasty is another good example Chinese culture becoming dominant through mostly non-violent means. So I do think the Chinese people take pride in their fascinating and ancient culture, and yes to a certain extent they are probably consider themselves the world’s best culture. But I don’t think they are filled with hatred towards the lao wai as you suggest. And if anything it is based on negative experiences with foreigners, not some embedded feeling of superiority.
Have you ever noticed the foreigners on here who seem to have best integrated in Taiwan are often the ones most familiar Chinese and Taiwanese history and culture? Guys like say, Dragonbones, Vorkosigan, and bismark, just to name a few? I think everybody appreciates it when others express interest in their culture. I think you’ll find the Taiwanese are less likely to place you in the category of ignorant lao wai if you stop saying things like, “Chinese people think it’s OK to lie and cheat,” and “Chinese religion is evil.”