a friend who has a foreign boyfriend always worries about that her boyfriend might be seeing other gals although he said “no” is it true that a foreign guy can meet girls easily? do girls pick you up on the street or any occasion besides the bars?
I have never met a woman in a bar with whom I then managed to copulate successfully. Copulate yes. Just not successfully. No, but seriously though folks I wanna know, does anybody EVER hook up in a bar?
Sugar cane, sweetie, in Taiwan picking up a girl is easier than picking up a cold. You CAN’T AVOID it. BUT, the best way for your friend to lose her boyfriend is to be jealous and possessive. [b]If she’s cool and confident, everything will be great[/b]… unless he’s an ass, in which case she’s better off without him.
I would like to take this opportunity to reinforce a few stereotypes. Unfortunately I’m too drunk and high on drugs to do so, and there are several Taiwanese girls queuing up to shag me while my wife is away earning money to support my bad habits.
If she’s already worrying about it, it seems like she doesn’t believe their relationship is strong enough anyway and she’s already becoming paranoid and possessive with him about interacting with other women. So, in short, the answer, in her case, is to either calm down and focus on their own relationship instead of worrying about the what-ifs or otherwise to brace herself for the inevitable.
not sure how true…but heard a tip that that after 12 midnight, it would be easy to pick up great looking gals at the 24 hour elite bookstore at dun hua south… i hope it’s not one of those spookie things, wonder why after 12 mignight!!!
Meeting Taiwanese girls is easy. Any foreigner with a heartbeat should be able to get that far, in most cases. Being successful in courting/shagging/dating/marrying/wooing them is another story. If you want to increase your chances, learn Mandarin, work out a little, be a gentleman with all women, even the ones you’re not interested in, brush your teeth regularly, maintain excellent personal hygiene, develop your career, etc.
I’ve seen a lot of slobs who don’t speak Chinese, wear tatty t-shirts when they go out, don’t shave, are out of shape, have no career prospects, and ignore women who aren’t “hot” completly mystified, because they couldn’t get with the object of their desire…
From what I’ve seen, even slobs who don’t speak Chinese, wear tatty clothes, don’t shave, are out of shape, unhygienic, don’t pay attnention to their appearance and have no career prospects are still somehow able to find dates here!
From what I’ve seen, even slobs who don’t speak Chinese, wear tatty clothes, don’t shave, are out of shape, unhygienic, don’t pay attnention to their appearance and have no career prospects are still somehow able to find dates here![/quote]
Yep, and since I don’t fall into the “slob” category it always pisses me off when I can’t even get a date…and these guys are walking around with princesses.
Maybe it’s got more to do with personality than with being a slob dresser…
Sound of hammer hitting the head of a nail…
I have a close friend who is bald, short, chunky, and pushing 40. He usually wears something he’s owned for at least 20 years and has more body hair than a monkey. He’s worked in a variety of jobs, finally settling on a low paying government position that puts him squarely in the middle class category for the rest of his career. Not a very attractive package, eh?
He dated a beautiful woman (now a PhD student at a top university) ten years his junior for five years and is now engaged to be married to a an attractive, pleasant, intelligent young woman from his hometown. He has always dated very attractive, career-oriented women.
His “secret” is that he is a great listener, a good cook, a concientious lover, and has a high IQ. He’s also one of the most courteous and accepting people you’ll meet. And no (according to him anyway), he’s not hung like an elephant. An no, he’s not up for anything–he’s one of the most selective men I’ve ever encountered, when it comes to dating women. He can be because he knows what women want and is more than willing to deliver it consistently.
If you want a great woman in any country, you might take a lesson from this guy’s example.