[quote=“ironlady”][quote=“housecat”]Indiana, I still have no idea what’s next for me. There is very little on offer out there at the moment unless you are willing to work kindy–they’re begging for kindy teachers! But the moment I did that, someone from DKS would find out and report me. Anyway, when you’re a parent you just can’t take the same risks that you might if you were single. I really may not be able to make things work out on this island. It is NOT the same place I left five years ago.
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This is my concern for you. The environment in Taiwan in terms of foreigners not married to Chinese has gotten much more difficult over the past few years. As much as I love Taiwan, I don’t think I could realistically move back at this point and be able to do any sort of work even vaguely related to something I care about. I certainly would find it very difficult to obtain the sort of semi-open but open enough for what I wanted to do work rights that I enjoyed when I left. Seems like in the usual “chabuduo” manner, the government is stacking the deck so that only pliable recent grads can manage to stay in Taiwan for a year or two and then leave to be replaced by other pliable recent grads, since the only other alternative to have any sort of security (?) would be to marry a Taiwanese national. And that is only trading the goodwill of a boss for the goodwill of an individual man. At least the boss’ motives are more transparent: if you make money for his organization, he’ll probably keep you. Probably. :aiyo:
If you’re willing to “take one for the team” (meaning your son, at this point) I’d advise moving back to the States, choosing a state that doesn’t have banjo music as its gubernatorial anthem, finishing up a quick additional certification/endorsement in Special Ed, and choosing your job. English is not a good field at the moment in public schools but folks with SpecEd can almost write their own tickets. You would also be free in the States to start up your own tutoring service or whatever without fear of being turned in by someone.
At the end of the day, “work rights” are pretty valuable. Sadly, I don’t see you in a situation in Taiwan that would make me feel secure even for the short-term, given your responsibilities. And I don’t see you doing something that lets you develop your talents further, either. If you had a deep support network in Taiwan, it might be valuable to stay, but the ex’s family doesn’t sound as though they are worth much in that regard.
(BTW, upstate NY is actually nice a few months out of the year…think about coming up this way. We’ll get you set up.)[/quote]
That’s pretty grim, seeing as she basically just got back here. However, I have to say I mostly agree with your assessment. One the other hand, she can get a JFRV via the youngster, and from what I understand (HC, correct me if I’m wrong) she’s busy with this atm. If that comes through sooner rather than later, it may be a good option to stay for a while. If not, I’d agree that for her and the boy it may be better to go back Stateside.
All in all, not a pleasant situation. The whole thing pisses me off, especially as the school in question is supposedly Christian.