She’s not from a poor family either, but looking at the place her parents live in, I wouldn’t go as far as calling them well off. She’s been helping out getting her brother though Uni here and he’s about to ship off to the army in a month or two. She’s a hard working girl and she’s finally caught a break with this new job, but she’s still working hard, as she wants to be the best and that will hopefully help her get a better job in the future.
I make quite poor money here compared what I made at my last job in the UK, BUT, my living expenses here are about a quarter of what they were there so I shouldn’t really be complaining. I guess I’m not as concerned as you when it comes to these kind of things, I think it’s more important that you find a person that you like to be with, as at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how much your level of education is similar or how much money the two of you make, if you can’t stand eachother after six months.
With regards to my education, I left college some 14 years ago, so it might be different these days, but it’s still very possible to get a job in Sweden once you finnish college, as a lot of the college educational programs have a very pratical approach and you’re being trained into a certain job. Many of my college class mates got jobs with Volvo, Scania, ABB etc. right after college, as I was studying robotics, automated production systems and computer programming. It wasn’t really what I wanted to do in life, but it was good fun. Somehow I managed to get myself into IT journalism while living in the UK, based on self taught skills and although I’d admit I’m not the best writer in the world, I know my stuff when it comes to my line of work.
It’s all a little bit about luck and taking a chance, I didn’t really know what to expect when I moved out here and initially I was quite lost, but things tend to work out if you give them some time. I have had my fair share of sucky relationships as well, they happen, but sometimes you get to the stage where you realise that it’s not going to go any further and you have to end it. I hope things won’t go that way this time around, as I’m really crazy about this girl almost a year and a half on since we meet. Sure, we have our ups and downs, but I think this is quite normal. I get along with her parents and her brother and they’re all a really nice bunch of people. It turns out that I’m the first boyfriend that she’s ever really brought home to her parents place, which I guess means something.
I wouldn’t call my girlfriend typically Taiwanese by any means, she’s very outwards going, she has a great personality and she doesn’t mind getting a tan… We also like a lot of the same things, which I guess makes life a lot easier, but both of us are also willing to make sacrifices at times to make the other person happy, although not to the extent that one of us ends up feeling misserable. Saying that, I have attended a wedding or two too many, but at least the food was good at the last one I’ve accepted the fact that things are done differently here, even though I don’t always like it, but I’m a guest here and I’m sure she wouldn’t care for how we do everything in Sweden. I don’t think we’ll stay in Taiwan for the rest of our lives, but right now this is a pretty good place to be.