[quote=“Monday”]Did you ever tell her what you really want in your heart?? A mother ever told her daughter : “I bring you to the world and I have been living with you more than 30 years, but I never knew what you think, what you are going to do next or even how you feel cause you never revealed your true feelings or thinking to me.”
You probably notice from the Taiwan TV news these days - A guy who used to be gentle and tender to his families killing his own parents and also make his wife and very young children seriously wounded. If even parents unable to know what their children are thinking, who can?? I think that is what your friend mean " Heart Language".
There is Chinese old proverb saying: “You should keep one eye open and keep one eye closed after getting married”. Yes, that is true love and let’s not wait until getting married but after you or she reveal a “true you” or “true her” to each other and you both can still “keep one eye open and keep one eye closed” then we can say the heart language is efficient.[/quote]
I appreciate your comments. However, I personally found that when someone is very open (eg telling a woman what you want in your heart) is the fastest way to scare them off, and/or make you appear to be a beta male who has to discuss his feelings)
Nothing seems to scare a female off faster than a beta male who talks about feelings. She woudl rather be with the biker dude