Just trying to get a better understanding of the opposite sex… What turns men on? I’m not talking about what you find physically attractive. More like what can someone do to make you want to get hot and heavy? I’ve heard that all a gal needs to do is show up naked (and bring beer). Is it really that simple?
You can’t do it during Match of the Day, for instance.
You just have to look as cute as you do in your blogg pics.
Yes, its really that simple. Any guy who says otherwise is a liar or not worth your time.
And if you bring pizza we will wash your car.
If the guy finds you attractive, yeah, you could just show up naked. But for some guys, that would also be the signal for “psycho chick – dump immediately.”
Do you mean someone you’re in a relationship with, or men you meet at a bar/at work/at a social event? Those are different, because you can get away with different things.
No, he’s got a point. If a girl I don’t know that well suddenly shows up naked, I’m thinking, “High potential for sexually transmitted diseases, proceed at own risk.” If it’s a wife or girlfriend - different story, do it, he’ll love it.
Being female. (Unless the man is gay…)
Just showing up is sufficient for most guys.
I see I have to step in because all this “just show up and be yourself” crap is making me yawn.
Here are few things just off the top of my head:
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Making you (men) feel you’re important, smart and funny (I’m old enough not to have to do that unless you really are, btw)
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Wearing stockings
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Wearing stockings and going commando
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Wearing stockings, going commando while shaven
There you go. Now I’m off to bed and you’re on your own, but try not to go back to that boring stuff…
Number 4 sounds :lovestruck: :discodance: :yay: but wouldn’t she catch a might draft 
[quote]3. Wearing stockings and going commando
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You’d look so cute in commando stockings.
Some guys hate shaven, me being one of them.
Bring over some hot asian porn works for me. Better yet, offer to make one with me.
Try cuddling in against him and licking/biting his neck. Wearing something that reveals the top halves of your breasts is also a good idea.
[quote=“Kragar”]
Do you mean someone you’re in a relationship with, or men you meet at a bar/at work/at a social event? Those are different, because you can get away with different things.[/quote]
I was only half serious when mentioned showing up naked with beer. I don’t make a habit of showing up at a date’s house naked. Definitely not something I would do on a first date. However, after I got to know and like the gentleman in question… It’s a possibility.
I really didn’t have a specific type of relationship in mind when I asked the question. Does the same thing work with someone you just met and someone you’ve been in a 5+ year relationship? Do turn-ons change as you get to know the person? I know all men are different… I thought learning about a variety of opinions would be interesting / helpful.
Granted I haven’t seen a great deal of Asian porn… I’m not an anti-porn kinda gal, I can’t say that I find Asian porn that appealing. The guys aren’t much to look at, although I guess that goes for most porn. The girls are beautiful… But from the limited amount I’ve seen, it looks kinda rape oriented. Plus they blur the naughty bits. What’s up with that?
I doubt I’ll be making any hot Asian porn anytime soon. I’m not a hot Asian. Actually I’m not Asian at all. I’m Canadian. Unless of course I meet a hot Asian guy with a video camera.
Thanks for all your helpful suggestions.
Ironman, you’re a sweetheart. 
Oboy this is gonna be fun! 
As far as the fully-naked thing goes, never turned me on. Always let the guy take off your clothes, and I don’t mean your pants and button-up shirt. Way too much awkward fumbling. Bring along some nice little shorts to wear for him to fool around with whilst moving in for the kill. A litte shirt with little straps is nice too.
ALWAYS wear slightly revealing clothes and flaunt what you’ve got. Never give the impression sex is out of the question even if it is. Always leave him wondering and wanting more. Leave a lot to the imagination. Even if you’ve got a great body, never stand naked in the middle of the room for him to look at your body at will. No fun in that, unless you’re willing to pose provocatively. The semi-clad body on a beautiful, aloof woman is about the sexiest thing I can think of, unless there are two semi-clad beautiful women.
Don’t forget the beer should be cold. And cheap beer is a turn-off. Ask him his favorite and never deviate.
You haven’t been exposed to the real thing. A quick search of the Internet will uncover those naughty bits…and they are very naughty. 
Hello?
Thats Funny. If a girl shows up naked, I usually want to put some clothes on her because, just face it, most girls are butt ugly naked. 
Hello?
Only slightly, I think. At least in this aspect. Sure, there are a few real deviants among us (and I’m not judging those as good or bad). But, in general, most men are pretty much the same in terms of what you as a woman need to know or do to turn us on.
It doesn’t take a whole lot of effort.
Its all only a matter of degrees.
Only slightly, I think. At least in this aspect. Sure, there are a few real deviants among us (and I’m not judging those as good or bad). But, in general, most men are pretty much the same in terms of what you as a woman need to know or do to turn us on.
It doesn’t take a whole lot of effort.
Its all only a matter of degrees.[/quote]
There’s a whole lot of men who don’t like shaven girls, unwhite and/or lacey lingerie, stockings, porn or even beer. I don’t know if it’s normal or not, but they’re usually quite proud of themselves.
[quote=“Tigerman”]Only slightly, I think. At least in this aspect. Sure, there are a few real deviants among us (and I’m not judging those as good or bad). But, in general, most men are pretty much the same in terms of what you as a woman need to know or do to turn us on.
It doesn’t take a whole lot of effort.
Its all only a matter of degrees.[/quote]
That’s true.
However, when I indicated that “its only a matter of degrees” above, I meant that all men are generally turned on, but only to different degrees, by basically the same things.
When you get down to it, there isn’t a whole lot of difference generally, for example, between shaved and not. I mean, on a woman otherwise regarded as beautiful to any particular man in question, whether the woman is shaved or not will only matter in the degree in which the man is turned on. Whether she is wearing sexy underwear or none at all, is only going to matter to a few degrees as to how much the man is turned on…
For me personally, should my wife come home and make it known to me that she wants to do it, that is enough to “turn me on”. Should she also offer me a bottle of my favorite ale to enjoy during the act, that might turn me on even more… but, again, the difference is only in the degrees of how turned on I would be in each instance.
I’ve thought a great deal about these things, don’t you know… 