OK, @Uncreativeusername, if this guy can get laid (well, not now, but before he got married anyway), then you can surely get laid. This should be all the confidence building you need.
Hey, get a talkative outgoing wingman. Even if he’s old or fat or stupid or whatever, talking out-going guys can always break the ice and open the door.
Girls drop their guard because they know obviously nothing is going to happen with him but then it kind of opens the door for an introduction.
If someone Needs a gf/bf, that might be a problem. Healthiest situation is to be content with yourself, with or without a significant other. If you need someone to make you complete, then you’re fucked. Music and movies make it seem romantic to not be able to live without someone that you are so deeply in love with. But this is bullshit. Reminds me of a family friend, always in shitty relationships filled with drama and always being disrespected. But as soon as he breaks up, he finds another girl immediately. He can’t handle being alone, that’s not healthy. Don’t end up like that guy!